Seriously, it's the
narrow mindsets that will serve to imprison you for life. From your
questions of whether would he treat her well to if he would bed her
is completely IRRELEVANT to you. Why? Are you her
boyfriend?
Then? It seemed that you are more affected by the thought of her
being in someone else's embrace, not so much about HER,
individually as a person. And what if EVEN she did went bed with
him... what makes you think it's TRICKED and not willingness? What
if it's your dream girl who initiated the sex? (And don't come and
tell me its impossible because you are not her. Nothing is
impossible and this is absolute).
Don't be naive. Your sour jealousy is because your mind tells you
that you have 'lost' something, when in fact, you didn't have to
preceive this way. Will she 'seemed' different just because she
ended up with someone else and NOT with you, regardless of what
'they' do prior in the relationship?
Facts are thrown into your face; she is taken, you are so much
slower or, again, irrelevant even if you are on time (Meaning, no
chemistry no feelings from her).
Learn acceptance.
***
And Ayukat, you can
keep the fighting spirit and die without knowing why. Must get her
first then can let go? Oh please, nobody would give a damn whether
you buey gam buan or not - do not behave the way like the world is
your parents, whom will give in to you just because you wanted it
so badly, like a misfit child.
Only the foolish fights a senseless battle. You can fight a
thousand battle and lose that thousand battle because you don't
even phucking know what a battle is all about. Please lar, you
think in a war, it's all about fighting melee, range or whatsoever
sh!t that would induce bloodshed?
Pester her until she gives in? You reminded and reinforced the old
Psychology, Astrology and AOS theories in my mind - about how we
would revert back to the attitude in our childhood whenever we
faced robust difficulty, stress, rejections or objections.
You don't have
the ability to make her love you.
And if she doesn't love you, you can never make
her happy.
Quit deluding as
if you could actually create an impact, by doing
what you are doing. Basically, you can't. You can make a hoo-haa in
Sgforums about what you would do... what you would do... but
reality is a different world.
And everyone
knows where you stand in that world.
P.S:
If she wun ever belong to me... MAKE HER
We are waiting.
Cheers
