Dear CuteGenie,
Only you can make this decision whether or Not to split up with
him. Much as I sympathise with you, & understand your
frustration, I can only tell you what I think. The ultimate
decision, you understand, will lie with you.
I'm Not some frigid old woman, but I believe we women are entitled
to our likes & dislikes. So are men. Ok fine, your man thinks
his porn is more important? He can go have candlelit dinners with
his porn. In fact, he can cuddle his porn videos. You have the
right to your own self-respect, & as a bf, he should respect
you, & Not take you for a fool. If he made you a promise to
watch them less, he should keep them, Not try to hide it from you,
then give you the guilt trip by accusing you of being
over-sensitive. In my opinion, he's totally IN-sensitive.
I dumped that weirdo porn-obsessed ex & haven't looked back
since. Sure, it may hurt after awhile, but you'll feel good for
getting your self-respect back.
FeowFeow