Dear C2on2,
For some reason, I have a feeling that you already know deep down
what this means, but you're only seek to confirm your suspicions.
Either that, or you're hoping that someone here will tell you that
there's hope, so that you can justify what you want to do (i.e.
continue your fruitless pursuit?). At the end of the day, if you're
rejected, you can take comfort that somebody else told you to go
for it?
No offence, but perhaps the best way to start growing up is to take
responsibility for your actions. You want to go on a wild goose
chase hoping against hope that there's a chance, then go ahead. But
ultimately, if things don't work out the way you want, there's
Nobody else to blame but yourself. Remember, you CHOSE the
path.
Notwithstanding the above, my advice is: the meaning is very clear.
The girl may Not be trying to make you wait, but is giving you a
gentle hint to give up your pursuit. If you don't have what it
takes to be her guy, you don't have what it takes. There must be
feelings on her part...
FeowFeow
