Age is such a mighty barrier

I_am_PeTe_Parker SG

wah liao...sorry bro...offence not intended.
When the right person comes along...you will surely find love.

nukewatch SG

count your blessing. At 26, you only have to wait, and be sure you will turn 36 one day. At 36, you can only dream about being 26 once more.

a_splash SG

yoz, ken ah....like that u sure to get hit by nails mah....if a lady don't want u to know....meaning she is not comfortable to tell u too much....how to accept u as a future partner to be???

umm maybe sgforum should start a thread on the dos and don't of finding the rite one...

i rem this guy whom i don't know much....i join him and his friends for some events...but thru out the events...i (well its girl's six sense at work...sense there could be some liking in me) kept a distance from him....but he gong gong cannot feel it....still wrote me a letter...u say leh...i hv no choice but to return a nice and friendly letter to reject lah.....

a_splash SG

just be glad at least its only a short pain lor.....

u will find one that has reciprocal feelings for u....

good luck!

Kenashi SG

My principle is working against my feeling.
I wish to pursue her relentlessly but my principles forbid me to do so.
I have already decided to remain as friend. Better to be her friend forever n see her happy than to lose her forever.
If given the choice, I will rather butt my head against the wall until either my head crack or a hole open on the wall.
But logic shall always persevere for me, I am not such an emotional person.

a_splash SG

ya don't pursue....u will frighten her away....nitemares when pursue by guys u don't hv reciprocal feelings....glad yr principles is sound.. Laughing

Kenashi SG

age doesn't matter to me, nothing matter except for the feelings.

FeowFeow SG

*muses* Is there such a thing as dos & don'ts in finding the right 1? Honestly, I don't know what I did right to find the right 1, & what I did wrong previously that I didn't find the right 1 Razz

Sometimes, No matter how hard you try to do everything correctly, that person was just never meant for you. Then what? Razz

What I've done, is to follow my heart. Sure, it's led me through plenty of shit, & it broke, thanks to me following it, but now I'm happy : )

FeowFeow

Kenashi SG

no offence, I just trying to make myself miserable.

a_splash SG

even tho u don't pursue anymore...depends on woman of course....i think some, knowing already that u hv special feeling for them....will keep some distance....so don't be offended k....its just woman's sensitivity at work....

Kenashi SG

I don't like to look back, what has gone by, there is no use regreting.
36 is just another number, I don't even know whether I will live to 36 in the first place

a_splash SG

Mr. Green umm how to say it....well well....i can only say don't let love be fully blind lor..... Laughing

dragg SG

that is not my point.

if you dont even know her age obviously you dont know her very well.

is she just an acquaintance?

definitely not a friend yet right?

Kenashi SG

those gals who let me know their ages either are not interested in me or they are younger than me.
We shared things on our family, our work, even her admirer.
I thought she don't want to tell me is just becos she is older than me!
Crying or Very sad maybe I thought too much

Kenashi SG

I know!! they are scared that they may give me false hope.
I understand, I am oso trying to find a new job to get away from here soon.
Maybe with a new work environment, I will be able to suppress my feelings down.

Kenashi SG

she is a friend, we talk a lot about ourselves, just that she don't want me to know about her age.
We talk about our family, our friends, n many more.

a_splash SG

but don't hv this once bitten twice shy, or twice bitten, fouth shy and so on principle hor....

umm...think its still best to ask the girl u like out more, and from there i am sure u can find clues (if they also hv special feelings for u, i am sure it won't take u too long to find them), then 'attack'! Laughing

then again, whether will u kenna the nails again, also depend on wat kind of lady u are looking for lor....

dragg SG

how old is she from appearance?

much older than you?

starblue SG

brother, take it from me… move on. dun let age affet you so adversely…

Kenashi SG

I think I had got enough of love.
I am such a poor reader of a gal's thoughts n feeling.
I just want to be left alone.
I think it is better for me to go out to the world n find what I really want in life other than love.

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