How can you tell if your boyfriend hasn't gotten over his ex

Devil1976 SG

Everyone has a past Kimosabe... Though the fact that we have to live with them, doesn't mean that we would have to live IN them...? Smile

Not meaning to shatter your dreams here.. But understand that life is always full of uncertainties.. Like what had happened to you previously...? But now? You're HAPPY again..? Mr. Green

But you can't be truly happy if you're worried...? Happiness is something which you allows through you... It simply can't come burging its way through if you keep your doors shut... Wink

I say you should just TREASURE whatever you've got now...? It doesn't really matter what you buy him, make him... etc.. If your bf really loves you, he'll probably just love you for WHO you ARE... What you feel for him and how you care for him...? Smile

Don't be dishearted because there're always so many ways to show your love for him... Alot which money simply can't buy... Wink

mahai102 SG

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vIn.Warrior SG

you'll need trust in order to have long & lasting relationships.
why not gather all your courage and try asking him bout it.

good luck!

nuchio SG

i agree with brownbaobao

this is not about his ex ..

about your own insecurities...

look, he is with you isnt it?

she should be the one wondering why she is so hot and he is still stuck with you !

binZ SG

life is always full of uncertaintees.. when u are younger, u tend to say all the big words like u love him forever etc. so tat is normal.. dun think too much about it..

Kimosabe SG

Thanks guys….I’ve been thinking so much these days…I read his Aunt Agony threads when he broke up with her…surprisingly I wasn’t angry…I actually wanted to cry because a part of me really felt his pain…I know this sounds rather cheesy but I really cried after reading his poems and knowing he was so in love and left alone. I only hope, although perhaps I may not be the best of the crop…I can give him whatever he needs at least… That’s all I want to do now…

FeowFeow SG

Sweetie,

Just based on your love for him alone, you oughta be the best he's had : )

FeowFeow

Kimosabe SG

Guess what?? I went out with his ex yesterday and we became really good friends! She's real nice and all that... either that was a really stupid move or a smart one but regardless i felt pretty alright about the whole thing... Mr. Green

FeowFeow SG

Hi Kimosabe,

It takes a generous & big-hearted girl to want to get to know your bf's ex. I don't think I could ever do that Razz Whether it's stupid or Not, is Not for anyone to judge, & only time will tell. Anyway, it sure beats the ridiculous catfights between say, Penny Lancaster & Rachel Hunter (Rod Stewart being the lucky man in question).

Your gesture, as I've mentioned, is uncommon, & it shows your depth of character.

FeowFeow

Devil1976 SG

A gf who knows how to respect a bf's friends would probably be much respected in return.... Cool

Kimosabe SG

Aww...you guys really think so? Very Happy I don't feel so stupid anymore...you know my anniversary with my bf is exactly the same date as him and his ex? But diff month...i used to feel our anniversary is not special at all but after a while I realised its just between me and him...and I'm the one who keeps bringing her up...*sigh* Now i know..you guys are really the best...thank you for all your support... Mr. Green

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