True story- A girl broke up with her bf cos cannot cope with
both studies/ r/s cos very young, only 17.
The guy was heartbroken but he remained a friend. Still calls her
regularly, showed his concern, listen to her problems. He didn't
get jealous even though he knew many guys were wooing her. Managed
to get her to slowly go out with him. In the meantime, he started
getting involved in other activities so he don't get so obsessed
with her. They have fun together & she realise what a caring
guy he was.
It took him almost a yr. to win her back.
This case senario can only happen if the breakup is mutual &
both remains as friends. Very unlikely to win back yr ex gf. if u
have treated her badly.