Hello all,
personally i think there`s really no specific answer for this kinda
question..
i feel that most of the time, people break up for various
reasons,
1st being the lack of love or 2nd havin found new love
if one had broke off due to the lack of love, i believe that it`ll
be reasonable to have a considerable patch up
but if one broke off due to one party finding new love, i think
it`s much harder to patch back
taken from Westlife`s "If I let you go"
'..... but if i let you go, i will never know, what my love would
be, holding you close to me.....'
Sometimes people do break up for reasons that are beyond their
control.
eg. guys going NS.gal goin exams, or are temporary in different
phases of life..
sometime these stress levels force ppl to give up on a r/s befoer
it turns too strong. some people have this ` i must break up or
i`ll love her too much and i`l be very sad when it happens`
mentality.. that why guys ( lots of them ) break up with their gf
when they enter army..
sometime i really feel that this could had been managed better, but
somehow it seems like most ppl took the easy way out..
in cases when ppl had found new love ( esp when it`s too easily ),
it`s hardly advisable for a patch back, cuz wat happend once will
have a very high chance to happen again, not saying that it surely
will, but the chances are high..
so my conclusion is that you have to think for youself,
Like every human, every love is
so alike, but yet so unique and different
