Originally posted by Nu^Ren:
[b]Erm... Neither. I belong to VIRGO.
Cheers![/b]
You feel
alot... but does he knows anything on what you have written in this
post?
Insecurity? Or lack of proper communication, which give rise to the
insecurity?
What's security? Is there such thing as 100% secured? Even if he is
around, technically speaking, you still wouldn't achieve the 100%
secured marking because there isn't such a thing. When he is away
and you feel vulnerable: are you experiencing some kind of
situation that causes you great emotional distress and needed him
very much? Or it is just because he is 'missing'... away on mission
and this causes emotional inbalance?
Soon is right about a boyfriend's responsibility to be there when
their gf needed them to tide over critical emotional times - but
this only applies to the above former. As for the latter, the
underlying problem actually lies with the gf themselves. To rush
back in the middle of his mission and to satisfy the latter's
problem is what we call in Mandarin 'Zhi biao bu zhi ben'. And
eventually, there are more missions to come, more days of
longing... and the old problem crops up again and again... and
again...
P.S: Does this insecurity comes with your past experience with guys
(or past relationship) or does it appear because of him (your
current relationship or probably only him alone)? Virgo has this
tendency to think-too-much to the extend of being irrelevant. And
being irrelevant is bad, especially for relationship - sprouting
scenarios, characters, possibilities, etc that ain't there... but
existed in your mind. You may like to communicate this thingy to
him, for he may have yet to know the structure of your thinking and
emotions. This will likely to cut your fear and insecurity by quite
abit, through effective communication. 
Cheers
