help in my love problem 2

last SG · 2005-06-24T13:47:35+00:00

Well, you insisted on giving him the benefit of doubt. This is the type of person who just get advices for the sake of looking at what is being commented. T...

starblue SG

from your previous thread:

"there is this girl who likes me very much but firstly i don't like her but she calls me everyday and at first ,she pisses me off by sms me and call me all these .I like other girls beside her ok cuz she is not good looking at all .But character wise , she is no 1 .She likes me more than I like her .she really understand my heart and i was touched by her too but what is stopping me is i scared if i bring her out as my gf ,other people will laugh at me .especially my friends will say oii why your gf so ugly one all these lor .But deep inside heart ,i already began to accept her already .what should I do ?"

shallow Ashol. you started this new thread and portray yourself as a victim. Fark. guys in here who are giving "serious" advice to this guy here... i don't know if you've read what he said in that thread. reading this new thread makes me boil. Ashol.[/quote]

Kerotan Frog SG

what are you talking about? if she can just leave me alone and stop bugging me then i have no complaints.

starblue SG

act blur.. Rolling Eyes dun giva sht about u le. ke si.

M©+square SG

i'm laughing at Kenneth Tan Jian Wei,

Read the post before making comment leh.
I replied in the first page already.
Don't have to tell me this who to blame la.
It's clear cut in this case.

Mr. Green
See liao also sian. Numbskull Frog

Cheers

Pion SG

Was that necessary? Oral sex...cudnt u just said 'being intimate' ? Well, ur weak for being a slave to ur carnal desires. So how exactly u wan us to help u?

Kerotan Frog SG

I already stop sms her and answering her calls. She sms me says she is worried about me and ask me why I go disappeared all a sudden after that night.

Ito_^ SG

omg i got so many movies to watch!! so happy!! Mr. Green

Kerotan Frog SG

'being intimate' people might think i go to bed with her. so it's only
receiving oral sex from her.

StarPuppy SG

I am sure u know what to do and please stop potraying urself as a victim...all along u were the one just usuing her.....u are a guy,dun tell me u dunno how to say the two simple letters "NO"

Please la...everyone in here damn sick for your story of u cannot do this blah blah blah....the reason is u dun want to end this in the FIRST place

M©+square SG

How come babyboy didn't ask me to close this thread leh? Twisted Evil

Pion SG

i have an idea..next time just close Frog’s thread whever he starts new one. Its pointless to give advice as it falls on deaf eyes. There are much more other people who need it more n deserve it.

ILPSY SG

He sure sounds like DING SHANBEN in the forum... Twisted Evil

aCid_rAIn SG

c'mon. him DING SHANBEN? gimme a break. Laughing

mercurialz SG

as i have expected, u were the person who wanted to go for a trip "like husband n wife" n i had sort of advised u to be careful of not going overboard... aft reading this thread, i really had the impulse to start "flaming" u... but of course, i wun break my record...

so much for saying that u will keep urself in check from ur earlier thread... u cant even exercise self-control in a cinema, where it's supposedly to be a public place... let alone when u put urself alone in a room with her in a foreign land where u r away from any form of scrutiny by pple who know u... i dunno wat kind of thing u wld do, n i believe, u will start the nonsense by saying "... by being polite, i din push her away/reject her..." yah-da yah-da...

y did i get so worked up? well, itz simply becoz i wonder how much interest u have in developing a r/s with this gal in qn... everytime u din not reject her advances, u give the excuse that "u were juz being polite"... this is NOT being polite... i kinda sense that u had it all planned out that u will not reject any physical advances from her...

oral sex? i dun believe u... even the most secluded of cinemas have a few ah peks inside.. unless of course the so-called cinema is a home theatre system that u have in either of u guys' house... n i dunno watz there to console her... if u like her, have a decent r/s with her... if u dun like her, reject her flatly.. if u dunno whether u like her, go out as platonic frens... WHAT ON EARTH IS SO DIFFICULT ABT THAT??? Shocked

i really question ur intention behind posting such a thread... are u trying to glorify ur own escapade? that someone is desperately throwing herself at u? pardon me for being blunt, but to me, it seems more n more like u dun have a love prob... more like a fantasy of urs... juz look at the number of times u defended ur actions by saying that "u juz wanna be polite"...

i apologise to others who dun share the same sentiments as i do or are offended n feel that i "flaming" him unwittingly... but i doubt the credibility of his character and the authenticity of his prob...

Kerotan Frog SG

when a girl makes a man high and then gave him oral sex which guy will reject? I dun know f i like her or her what. but going out as platonic friends i am afraid i cannot control myself when she arouse me and engage in sexual activities with her. I have needs too and i have no gf k. I ceased contact with her for about 3 days from now and everyday she is smsing me asking if i am alright aand she is worried what happen to me. She is like crying in the sms whn she ask me to sms a while to know that i am fine. I am getting soft hearted again but i don't want to sms her back to give her false hope. I rather she hate me and stop pestering me.

Kerotan Frog SG

I was soft hearted today after reading her sms Crying or Very sad
she sms me " is it we are no longer friends anymore and why are you avoding me. I'm feeling very terrible" i sms her back finally on the 4th day. I cannot bring myself to break her heart.

drx SG

I guess we are all human and we still cannot change the fact he likes her.

The others have tried their best to stop you but i guess is hard to change your mindset.

Congras at least you hold out for 3 days without smsing her. At least you have try your best and should give you a clap for doing your best.

Guess you have to learn your lesson the hard way.

A few question to ask if you are ready for her:

1) I got to ask if one day you accept her and she dump you can u take it ?

2) Do you mind she call you everyday and nite to ask, are u ok, have u eaten?

3) If you look at other girls or call yr gal friends and she scold you in front of everyone and cries, can you take it ?

4) She hates your guys friend and ask u to break up with them and fellow her everywhere she goes, can accept?

5) If one day she tells you she got some sex health problems and she might have pass some to you, will you forgive her and say no problem?

6) She makes you pay for everything and never pay a single cent, can you stand it?

7) She is not a vigin, do u mind? and she refuse to say how many man she had gone to bed with? can you take it?

My advice is to really think over my questions first, if you have answer yes to all the above questions and accept all her past faults, then you are ready to start something with her.

I am not that hard hearted to stop you but only can offer some advice.

My advice to is to do a background check on her if you like her so much.
Just get someone who knows her or ask around. if she is a playgirl the truth will be out there.

drx SG

" care to share your previous case with everybody here? but u mentioned save your life sounds serious why is it that makes u say that? I just wanna be normal friends that's al "

the girl loves to have fun with many guys and plays them in her hand. All the guys thought that since she is an ugly gal sure no one want one to have sex with, so goes happily goes to bed with her and some guys she did oral sex only and was shock to find that they kena some sex problems. Shockingly the gal still goes around doing that to guys who are not aware of her.

Is ok since you feel that she is not the same person as the one in my case then I will not talk about the case anymore, since you say you just only want to be normal friends with her.

heavenlyfire SG

like i say, the source of your trouble is your handphone, if you really want to end all these, you would have listened to my advise, get a new sim card, how much time and money will is cost?

just 4 days only? i expected something more for a 23 years old guy. seems like you still feel something for her, as you cant bring it to end.

don be like what others say on you. guess what i must said has alreadly been said. the answer is alreadly with these posts. you want something, you must scarifise something. In you case, you desire for peace. yet a simple thing like changing your number also cant be borther, how to help.

Another advise is "if you wants other to help you, you must first advise."

Kerotan Frog SG

1) i can take it
2) i tell her try not to sms so many times a day
3) Then i won't call other girls besides her
4) we can agreed to have our own space if we are in a relationship
5) I don't know. But if i have sex with her, i'll use condom
6) she never ask me to pay for everything instead she pays for me most of the time but i feel not so good but she insist
7) I know she is not a virgin anymore but how many man she slept with before, i don't wish to know as long as she is faithful to me

She is not the kind of playgirl and she told me she only have sex with guys she loves not anyother men that comes along. One thing that is bothering me is she wants to get married and have kids type that one i'm not ready at the moment.

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