ILPSY SG She may just be treating you as her good buddy, someone who is always around when she needs help, and you fufill that. As words like "I like you" doesn't really mean anything. What she meant maybe, "I like you (as a friend)" We become friends with each other as we have a liking for each other unconsciously. Maybe, you think too much.
InSidiousGG SG As a matter of fact, I see none of this happening to me. Guess she doesn't really like me after all. Just had a conversation with her via msn..and she gave this ironical reply about our dates.. ''I want to go out with you but I forgot.'' I mean,if you wanna go out with me then how can you forget.. See the contradiction? As you have said rainee. I hell agree with your statement.
Magnus SG Forget about her. She knows your weakness & she's exploiting that. You are being treated like a carrot-head, it's plain to see. If you feel unappreciated, it goes to show you will never be one of her priorities, even as a friend. If you still want to be her friend, moderate yourself a few notches down to cut down on the dissapointment.
drx SG I was once like you. no matter wat people say, I just keep telling myself is that she likes me nothing else matter so I kept on helping her in all the ways I can. In the end saw her with another guy hugging together and kissing under a tree only then I realise how silly I was. She even denied the whole thing when I asked her where she was that day. She made full use of me by ask me to do her homework, bring her home after she chiongs, doing her shopping and many more. I really hated her for what she had done but there was nothing I can do. If you feel that you still believes that she likes you by all means go ahead and please her. Just trying to keep advise you from this long and hard path I had to go through in order to understand the real meaning of the words " She is using you".
InSidiousGG SG Thank you everyone. Now I get a clearer view of what is going on. It's time I forget her and embrace other ''trees''.. Sick of her beck and call.. Gonna sort this out ASAP! Thanks guys!
Prince Cumming SG Originally posted by InSidiousGG: Yea same here.. I was really looking forward to that day.. thinking abt the stuff to spend the day with her .. seems heavenly.. but when it arrives.. she will pang seh me by using the disapperance tactic or simply take it as though she dont give a damn to the date And what's' more disappointing is that [b]she ask me out in the first place and say abt going to the movie and have dinner at resturant blah blah.. I wouldnt mind helping her in her school work.. it's just that I am afraid that she may become too dependent on me.. [/b]Ya though disappointed, i must credit her for her genius creativity. Her excuse are always refreshing & never re-cycled. E.g. tooth ache (i volunteered to bring her to the dentish but she rejected strongly), her pet hamster passed away & she needs to bury her ... For her birthday, i burned like $200 to celebrate for her... dinner at Hotel, flowers, a pair of earrings, trumisu cake For my birthday, i got a sms from her in the morning with a grand total of ...3 words--- Happy Brithday ! (2 words to be exact, plus one =Punctuation mark) I stared at that sms for ard 45 min in my bed... frozen in thoughts, perhaps the disappointment was freezing..
InSidiousGG SG Advantage-taking ladies has got to be one of the worst kind so far.. It's like having a cancer.. slowly draining your whatever, constantly demanding something.. Yea prince.. I understand.. that was like aww..
Prince Cumming SG Yeah i have my fair share of selfish bratty sluts!! But contrary to what u ppl may think, this gal i talkin abt gotta be one of the most kind-hearted & helpful gal i know in my life... jus nd to clarify to be fair to her She is my ex-lover frm 4 years ago. Met her during our jc days... she is every guys dream-- tall, average lookin, humourous & basically someone u feel comfortable with I was a bleedin' fool to let her out of my miserable life... which became more miserable after she left U see, i was sufferin frm (i realized later) a inferiority complex & sub-conciously self-sabotaging our relationship Anyway i did what i did for her today with no regrets... she told me to jus move on with life. But i kinda miss her badly Beside always pang-sehing me, not answering my calls at nite, laughing at me for me being emotional & insulting my height & physique... she is basically a nice gal
aH_v SG You have tools at home, don't you? Do you remember each and everyone of them, and maintain them with passion and love? Not to mention, your tools doesn't have feelings, but you are not a dead thing. So why don't you take some actions about it. Just tell her this, "I do like you in everyway but I don't think it's worth it anymore. You don't and probably will never accept my feelings for you, and I'm NOT a chair for you to seat when you need it and chunk away when you don't."
