thanks for the wonderful views and professional consultation esp
by Yunhaier 
i'm starting to feel better as i know i'm not alone. i have agree
to come in terms of relationship one has to be pro-active and not
leave it to fate totally. Instead of playing the waiting games,
just get out and know more people.
To tell the truth, i have already tried some of the solutions
suggested, but in turn i faced rejections or the other way around.
its difficult to find the right match, because the older u are, the
more factors you consider.
i would try to think the whole thing as a process u need to been
through / experience in life, thats why there is so many sad songs
in the world.
somes say the harder you seek, its harder u will get. in regards to
social life, i hardly go to group outings these days, maybe old
friends. i not an expert in dating because i'm just a quiet
engineer who returns to home everyday after work.
not many believe in platonic male/female relationships based on my
experience, in the end the guy might take a liking to her and get
hurt instead.
material wise, i realized that there is no limits of the money you
can earn. how to define stablity in this economy where most of the
jobs are contracted these days. but i would say i'm in good hands
for now.
arrggh:
i sympathy with u, i have seens many years of relationships been
blown away. but hey u are still young, there's a saying man at 30
still a tiger, still can start afresh.
