Ultraking SG my gf is a jap, so i'm wondering ....... in future if we r going to marry, i will have 3 kind of options for me to choose. 1) full chinese custom 2) half chinese & jap custom 3) juz a buffet style for my case, i think my 1 will b very costly becoz i need to arrange both side . also dunno whether jap got take si diam kim(shi dian jin) anway, i juz can't wait to see her in kimono dressing during that day anyone have this kind of situation??
the Bear SG why don't you just plan the whole thing with your fiancee? that way, you'll know exactly what to plan for
Haze| SG how about those poolside buffet style? i thot that would be very nice. then keep it small scale like 100 pax.
gerrykoh SG Discuss with your gf. One of my relative married a Japanese. Her family flew in for church wedding, buffet lunch followed by dinner at hotel for immediate family. The bride wore the normal white wedding gown, didn't use kimono. Some people may host another dinner in Japan, it depends on the couples' finances.
Ultraking SG sorry both of us r not christian. so church wedding will be out. hopefully the party will host it. hehe. or else..... i will or bak kut(black eye). i think international marriage is abit troublesome. anyway, it is once in the life time.