my male colleague has been going out with a vietnamese and
chinese KTV girls.
he is married with kids. his wife of 20 years knows and accepts it.
she wants to keep him the marriage no matter what; maybe face issue
since she is a director of an insurance company.
he told us that the feeling is different; the girls know what he
wants and how to please him. eg. he takes a cigarette and they get
the lighter ready...
eating out with them is as good as a 'no-hand restaurant'
experience.
most of all, they girls sometimes do not want his money or tips. as
far as he is concerned, the girls are really nice and sincere and
really really sweet.
they are everything his wife isnt. at least, he feels young and
happy when he is with them.
i reminded him that his wife gave him 2 lovely sons, put on couple
of kilos as a result, supported the family when he was jobless for
a year (got retrenched), accepted his fooling around and never did
him wrong...
so she isnt gorgeous or doesnt feed him...
but she uses her CPF and pay for the house with him. she also spent
the best years of her youth, all 23 of it with him, raising a
family.
i just feel it is so sad, that he should treat her this way. also,
the girls do want his money, that is why they are here. considering
that he is almost 50 years old and isnt terrific looking or rich,
can they really be in love with him? unfortunately he doesnt want
to believe that.
i told him that after listening to his story, i have really become
disappointed in men and maybe marriage... is this what women
deserve... after all these years?
looking at the number of men going for all these KTV girls from
china, vietnam and wherever.. how about the wives and
girlfriends?
the very wives and girlfriends who spend their lives slogging for
their men and this is the 'reward'.... they get?
there are so many stories today out there; men cheated of their CPF
money overnight by some sweet-young thing. they leave their wives
and kids penniless...
common guys, is this it?
