Originally posted by Yunhaier:
The remaining portion
of this post speaks about your narcissistic nature towards this so
called 'Love.' Do you realise, [b]it's all about
you? The fear to lose a crush (and it's not
definitely a friendship), about your emotional dependancy, about
the worries if she is found to be your gf and she's not pretty
enough, etc. There is absolutely NOTHING about the potential
relationship itself or at least her.
In a very blunt tone (or analogy), she is probably just a passing
ship that is willing to dock at the shipyard, waiting placidly for
your ticket to board. The ship is not particularly impressive and
you chose NOT to board because there could be better ships coming
soon. You waited, but there was no ship. In a no alternative
situation, you conform your mindset to accept this poor ship and
began to psychologically tell yourself (or begin to realise through
enlightenment) that although this ship is unimpressive, its
durability is good enough to bring you to where you want to
go.
NEVER accept a relationship, wondering if you love the person
because Love needs no consideration; it simply happens because,
like a ship without direction, you will end up being caught in a
sudden squall and get sink soon enough.
P.S: You need better reasons/wisdom to reflect on your own course
of direction. All your so called fear are roots of narcissism - do
not be mistaken for love. Love IS freedom; yours is binding.
Cheers [/b]
hmmm.. i totally agree. i think im something like tat too.
haix.. 
