Run out of topics?

last SG · 2005-06-15T05:01:55+00:00

Very true, she wants attention from u. When u call daily, ask her to tell u what she did. Girls are chatty. U should ask questions to get her to talk. She wi...

pete98 SG

So what do you guys do when you ran out of topics during a phone conversation with a girl?

M©+square SG

Put down the phone/ end the call prematurely.
No point forcing it to come off unnaturally.

The point is leave no awkwardness in the conversation and mantain good impression.

Do better the next time. Wink

drx SG

1) sis want to use phone

2) need to go toilet

3) mum ask u go eat lunch

4) father fell down need to go see doc

5) got to study liao tom got test

6) friend expected to call in

7) brother need to use dial up for internet access

Cool is late want to sleep liao

9) mum scream at u to put down the phone.

so many excuse just chosse one can liao

viciouskitty74 SG

A simple: ‘Well, I got to go do something. Shall we talk more tomorrow when we meet up for coffee instead?

M©+square SG

Good, very good. Cool

pete98 SG

That sounds good but the sad part is I do wish to stay on line but I just run out of topics.

SoonKeong SG

Go lim kopi den 10 mins later run out of topic how sia? Laughing

xking SG

jus end the call loh.. else silence very awkward.. i rather dun tok if both got nothing to tok.

M©+square SG

discipline yourself.

Rather take a step back and plan for tomorrow then to wreck everything and leave a lousy impression - revealing your flaw to her.

Usually guys cannot control themselves will lose out, then don't blame the girls for being heartless. Many times, guys destroy their initial rapport with girls.
Don't be too careful/cautious, just be decisive and well mannered.

All the best!

Devil1976 SG

During my longest record holding 8 hours call... The girl was talking to me in her dreamland words.... Mr. Green "

Kenneth Tan Jian Wei SG

Wrong! Salah! Tactical error!

Make it seem like it's always interesting during your telephone conversation. How so? The "interest vs. time" graph is usually like a mountain-shaped curve with a certain peak. Take the initiative to seek to end the conversation around this "interest climax". That'll leave the other party craving for more.

Don't hang on to the receiver like its your dear life, that'll only serve a purpose - and that's to make you seem like a wussy.

Of course, if she's practically begging to continue the dialogue, that's an exception to the rule...

Embarassed Laughing

SMAPLionHeart SG

my record was 1 hour and 10 minutes, but ironically , not my gf.

drx SG

question for gals

will u like a guy who talks a lot with u ?

came across this

if a girl really likes you she will be shy with you, scare to talk cos she do not want to frighten you away.

when she treats u as friends then the topics start to flow.

pete98 SG

Frankly speaking, if the girl knows you for more than a year and is still shy to talk to you then something must be wrong, right?

alexkusu SG

I apologize for cutting this call short..i need to do something (insert excuse here), do you mind if i call u back later?

then u think of topic...etc...n call back..

"hi, how are u? Have u eaten ur dinner yet? How was it? ....then continue lor"

easy huh? Laughing

alexkusu SG

no.

pete98 SG

Hows that? Would you be shy to someone you alredy knows for more than a year?

alexkusu SG

How old ru n her? Then I know how to respond to ur answer with regards to how u guys will behave, etc..

pete98 SG

I'm 30yrs old ore of a listener and shes 25 yrs old and quite a outspoken person. It weird but sometimes we can talk for a hour but sometimes the conversation can barely last 10mins.

alexkusu SG

i think u just think too much..sometimes girls have this thing called 'withdrawal' period where they refrain frm talking much..n re-evaluating the feelings they have for u before deciding how and what they should do next..