My best friend wants me to break off with my gal

brownie6222 SG · 2005-06-19T02:25:06+00:00

Maybe your best friend have feelings for your girl, Who knows.

brownie6222 SG

He is not supportive of my association with my gal and wants me to end it all. And he is not gay Laughing

Jus that he knew me and my gal had been fighting and she lied to me before so he said he feels she's not the one for me...and i feel damn sad to have ended it though i feel more relieved now that my blood pressure have gone back to normal...hmmm... Rolling Eyes

She wants to come back but i'm just quite...or maybe sick of fighting...but she's seem confident we gonna smoothen out and be happy with one another...though i have my reservations...but i do love her a great deal!!!

the qn is i miss her alot and comtemplating a patchup but my good frd is going to be damn TL abt me lor (btw, my guy frd is married...so he's not eyeing my chick)

my gal is quite a looker so i'm afraid with this 'space' or aka breakup, she's gonna be snatched up before i can say 'HIIIIII baby'....HOW????

PPL PLS HELP!!!

RaTtY81 SG

wah lao ur best fren wan u to break den u break. he ask u to jump down from building u wanna jump anot? make the decision urself. its not ur best fren gf, its YOUR gf…

shaunlaw SG

Decide for urself. Ur best fren can offer u advices but hes not u. U have to decide for urself that. Listen to ur heart ba. If u really love ur gf, then i think no words can break u apart or even tempt u to do that.

brownie6222 SG

hey ppl... Smile

I do love her alot but i am also uncertain of our future...there are things i dun like abt her and i think we have a major issue abt trust (she does seem to trust me as well, though i have not done anything unfaithful to earn that extra 'attention' from her)...haahaha

There seem to be problems abt one another that we cant seem to see eye to eye...

so now i'm at a crossroad where its her or none at all...for a while i feel like a freed bird...freed from quarrels that is... Confused

Just hope to have some one here to hear me out and seek asylum...

charlize SG

Seek asylum?

You political refugee ah ? Laughing

M©+square SG

You've got more than one reason to breakup with her.

However. She has got one(or more) attribute(s) to keep you.
It's quite definitely not love.

Cheers

powerstation SG

At the end of the day, the person whom is going to spend the rest of your life is the girl who loves you, and not your best friend. U shld decide it yourself and not to rely on your friend to decide for you.

You live your own life and should not let others rule your life..

drx SG

If one day you see your best friend who is fighting with his gf of 1 year drinking till dead drunk, will you advice him to break up?

Your friend is trying his best, to help you as he can see that you are suffering.

Can i ask if your gf is not beautiful at all will you even want to patch back ?

come on lar you and i, know you if one day something happen to her face she becomes ugly will u still want her?

M©+square SG

Like I've posted.
She has got the attributes (from street to bed) which seduces him.
He became the willing victim.

Read thru his strings of threads and study them?

piggy_777 SG

i do agree with powerstation. u are the one who spend most of the time with her be it sweet or bad so u should know whether is she for u. what fren see is very surface not in depth …..........i have a g/f who is so much older then his b/f but they are very happy …...........be many ppl going against them…........

brownie6222 SG

wah lau guys...me not keen in those attributes of looks and seductive instincts...those are bonus to me..but ultimately, its the well being of the relationship that i am most concerned with...i am honestly wondering why fights can emerge so ever easily...

I had a fair share of relationships with lookers or lang ga faces la...so now looks and bed-able scales are...but bonuses..

No pun intended...

Gackt247 SG

I agree with Ratty.. though is alittle blunt as always.. (a result of too much soap) Laughing

Ok.. i do know ur fren has good-intentions. He doesnt want u to be troubled. If i were him, i'll probably say the say thing. But ultimately, is up to u to decide.

If u think u can have a stable r/s with her again. Go ahead. Think rationally abt it. Dun let ur heart do the talking. Emotions do cloud ur judgement.

Wink

pinkygal76 SG

All my frenz are agst me marrying this guy!!......I am going to do it any way...
BTW, I am not quite that bad looking myself Very Happy
hehehe!! not that I cannot get myself another man thats why i stay onz....
but at the end of the day its wat your want!
Go with your heart and not wat yr frenz say..... You make your own choice....if
you realise that one fine day that its over at least you cannot blame any one for
the mistake that you make!!

btw....all pretty gals tempt to be more temperimental lar..... love her for wat she is
I am sure there are qualities in her that you so afraid to loss her ya!

Best of luck to you!

mahai102 SG

this is the most stupid post i've read in a long time...can you tell me which relationship is problem free? you're the kind of person i can see who gives up rather too easily...people's opinions seem to matter more than your own judgemental thinking...if your post reflects your intelligence level, then i'm afraid you're going to be facing a long hard road with your girl...

my advice: be celibate...go to china & enrol in the shaolin kungfu school...at least you'll learn some martial arts there instead of wasting your life away chasing girls...not to mention wasting some poor girl's life away tied to a wanker like you..

Laughing

hyuuga neji SG

sometimes pan guan zhe qing...
perhaps your friend saw something in her that you didn't see...

alexkusu SG

I had my fair share of 'looker' girls but there is one thing I have learnt so far. The thing is 'Never fight with your friend over a girl"...the girls will come n go, but good friends will stay for good. This advice was given to me by a good friend who I had broken the frendship with.So my advice would be just trial out maybe 1 month with that girl and then break off like what your friend said. But thats just my opinion. Ultimately its you who needs to make that choice Laughing

macambagus SG

Hiya brownie....u wanna restart this saga..?? If you area a risk-taker, then go ahead..I mean you've been saying abt all those quarrels that you have..u wanna go thru that all over again.

No harm in giving her a second chance...esp if you really really like her. but if the quarrels continue, u need to think abt your future, man..!!

darknessfall SG

KNN lah..happiness lies in your own hand dude! you make the decision..you either live to regret or live happily forever after…

BaByBoY SG

bu kui is expert..
juz one glance can see thro already

ilovemyrolex SG

just patch back first lor, and enjoy whatever comes with it.
if things don't work up down the line, you can always break up again.
best wishes

Originally posted by brownie6222:
wah lau guys...me not keen in those attributes of looks and seductive instincts...those are bonus to me..but ultimately, its the well being of the relationship that i am most concerned with...i am honestly wondering why fights can emerge so ever easily...

I had a fair share of relationships with lookers or lang ga faces la...so now looks and bed-able scales are...but bonuses..

No pun intended...