How do you know if a girl is playing you?

last SG · 2005-06-18T10:46:21+00:00

If i were you, i would not want to know if she is playing around with me.

Star_dust SG

Would like to know what signs are there that lets you know the girl is actually playing with you/ leading you on/making use of you… been in a dilemma recently, my friends are saying this girl is playing with me yet I cannot see it… I choose to believe her…

Rockhound SG

When she is holding a PS2 or XBOX gamepad whenever she goes out with u

ha8n SG

unless u12 hire prvte. investigator

chong-ster SG

only time can tell....

wad use is it of to you, if you try to rush things and want to find out the truth? ur only hurting urself.. wad if shes true to you, and ur going about trying to know if shes toying with you? she'll feel hurt

let time tell.. u'll know the answer yourself sooner or later...

StarPuppy SG

u do whatever she ask u to do but den she doesn't do the same for u....i got it before and its still fresh.....

drx SG

1) she always ask you to pay for her expenses when both of u goes out.

2) you look at girls and was caught by her, her reaction is, she just smiles and says is ok.

3) she makes you carry her bag every sec you 2 were together.

4) she never intro you to her parents.

5) she slaps you in the face and starts laughing

6) she calls other boys "dear or darling" but never calls you that.

7) She sleeps with other guys behind your back.

Cool she french kiss other guys in front of you and behind you.

9) she flirts in front of you with your friends and strangers..

10) when she is sad she always call you. But she is happy she refuse to go out with you.

Faramir SG

believe your friends. they have a clearer view of the situation.

joai28 SG

well put it simple lar, if she’s serious with you, she would have given you a firm answer or committment to the relationship. If nt , then she’s probably just enjoying the attention. Your friends will have a clear perception of this issue lar….trust ur friends, its hard to c what her real motive is when you are deeply in love with her.

101wish SG

hmmm, did she cares abt u when u were sick? or do thgs for u?

SoonKeong SG

Are u attached to her or just friends Question

Gackt247 SG

Frankly speaking, u dun need us to tell u. If u really dig deep inside of u.. u’ll know.. u’ll feel it. Juz tt pple tend to be shrouded n blinded by their unrequited love for sb, allowing tt someone to exploit u.

Star_dust SG

Hi all,

Thaks for your replies... I feel should wait n how her actions are...

Sadly she and I are not attached..... cuz she has a bf.... but then she'll still say she miss me n all tat la via email (cuz now i'm overseas)

My friends did say she is playing with me... but I cant feel it... cuz... a few times I said juz end contacts (cuz of the way she handle our conversations) she would be sad n want me to stay in e frenship...

however...she likes to lie alot.... =(

Magnus SG

She's got a bf. Nothing's clearer than that. What u say?

Maybe she's just looking for friendship?
You exposed yourself, got all smittened-up and end up she take advantage of u?
Ask your friends, they should be able to tell u.

Sometimes words are mere words. It's the mind that's playing tricks on you.

Star_dust SG

her actions alternates between having feelings for me n saying things more than what friends should be saying to saying we are juz normal friends.... Sad I ever asked her tat she say I am her friend wor...

Magnus SG

Mayb she's undergoing a rough patch in her current r/s and is looking for a 'spare'?

In any case, you will not be her top prioity as far as 'feelings' are concerned. U have to take her words with a large dose of salt.

alexkusu SG

its obvious now isnt it? it shows she is not so serious as u in this relationship Laughing

Apollo_sg SG

how?

simple.. does she remember things she said or do?

is she talkative?

does she cover one lie with another?

Star_dust SG

I rily dunno... for 1 thing she chosen her bf liao and second thing I am quite sick of her lies.... asking this cuz dunno should continue to be friends with her or not.... I feel she really felt for me n is confused between me n her bf.... it's like she dun wan to lose me like that.... tat's y keep me as fren

^HaRu^ SG

Originally posted by Star_dust:

I rily dunno... [b]for 1 thing she chosen her bf liao and second thing I am quite sick of her lies.... asking this cuz dunno should continue to be friends with her or not.... I feel she really felt for me n is confused between me n her bf.... it's like she dun wan to lose me like that.... tat's y keep me as fren[/b]

there.. u have the answer urself liao..

BadzMaro SG

I gotta tell u this bro , but.. man. Cut ur loses now. U gonna be in deep emotional stress. She is in a win win situation. She get to be with BF.. n in case shiet goes wrong..she comes back to ur sorry @$$. Well, by experience ? i say she playing u in the ballz. Ask ur friends what to do.. 3rd person perspective is always clearer.... Evil or Very Mad