Right time to ask for someone to be his bf or gf?

drx SG

1) Want to ask when is the right time to ask for someone to be his gf or bf?
After knowing the person for 1 month, 2 years or 5 years?

2) how to ask? beg ? love peom?

3) if kenna rejected should we just give up or keep trying ?

M©+square SG

All this case by case basis.
How to tell you? Mr. Green

Ito_^ SG

12 midnight when the moon is blood red.

deathscythe99 SG

Depends on the lady/guy lor.... Laughing

macambagus SG

When is the right time....only you will know when the time is right.

How....up to you...you can be creative..whatever you do, show that you are confident.

If rejected....I know its a bad feeling but be brave....try again next time!!

mercurialz SG

say, if u r a guy, and u cant even decipher when is the rite time to ask someone to be your gf, then i would suggest to wait until u r a little more decisive b4 u take any action coz u cant even convince yourself to do anything...

as for the method, juz do it ur way... suppose the r/s works out fine, ur gf will have fond memories of how u actually asked her to be ur stead... isnt this better??? Wink

kena reject then reject lor... if itz a flat no no, then give up lah... if she say not ready, then cont to persue her lor... y make it so complicated???

ilovemyrolex SG

the BEST time is now! The answer is not going to be dependent upon your mehod of asking.

Like mean like, don't like means don't like.

darknessfall SG

love has no boundaries, no time limit. You like it, tell her immediately.
of cse got pros and cons lah.... Mr. Green

she get shocked---> bye bye to you
she happy---> you are in luck

you can take your time too..understand her better...but dun take ages...
she will board another ship...
maybe after 6mths? if you cant tahan, take at least 3mths...though i took only 1 mth...haha Rolling Eyes Wink Razz Very Happy

eyonx SG

beg?? ... doesnt that show a bit of neediness? gives the impression that they would lean on us more, when one is looking for a person to lean on. One inevitably sense that he/she may not be appropriate for us.

there are many reasons why one would reject another, being disposed in another relationship, just purely not interested etc.
in any case, the decision has been clearly communicated.
.. telling another that one has feelings for another is flattering.
saying it a second time belies desperation.

Souledge SG

there isn't a right time.... i guess you have to follow yr feelings.... but also don't be too fast.... maybe one month to three months should do.... find out the reasons why he or she reject you... then you have to decide.... honestly... i don't believe in begging to go into a relationship... cause that should not be the case.... good luck Wink

thinger SG

well if youre rejected, respect the other parties decision/wants.

you'd figure it out yourself without having to post in forums like this. if you cant, dont try.

alexkusu SG

for me..when I was playing, fastest was 4 days..that r/s lasted 6months… then wen I was serious it was 2 weeks…the r/s lasted 2years till nw..