Hey dude... let me judge u by wat u've written here, u r
one god-damn boring guy u know tat??
Now tat I've caught ur attention, please hear me out b4 u start
blowing ur top at me, but if u think I sounded unreasonable at any
point, please do feel free to flame me.
Letz turn back the clock to the time when u were with ur ex. Watz
ur mindset like at tat time?? Watz makes u attracted to her?? Y
didn't u join her when she go clubbing?? Wat makes u break up with
her??
If my deduction is correct, u didn't spend enuff time with her. U
should be the one accompanying her when she go clubbing so u'll get
to understand more about her lifestyle. She wore casual clothes
when she go out with u because she feels comfortable with u, she
even drag herself out of the bed even if she's dead-beat, just to
go out with u. But, touch ur heart and ask urself this... will u do
the same for her? If not, (no offends but) I believe u chase her
just to get the free sex, or some kick from the ego thingy like,
"Yo look, I have a gf, and u doesn't have one, sucka!!". Yes??
No??
Now, turn the clock back to the present time, r ready to
1)accept another stranger into ur life??
2)Or u wanna get a gf because all ur friends got 1
3)because ur lonely
If itz 2), I suggest u can forget about it _|_ *shows middle
finger*, cos u sound like me when I was 10-years-old who wants a
multi-button pencil-box, "because all my friends got one, y not
me??".
U really need to ask urself, do u really need a gf?? Someone who u
can speak casually to, someone who can share ur woes, someone who u
r willing to dig ur heart out just to show it to her bcos u loved
her, despite of her looks.
Ok, letz now look at the quotes in RED below. Yeap, I too think
this way, but tat was in the past. I asked around, and found out,
y. This is wat the gals told me, "They know how to have fun". Yeap,
itz tat simple. But besides tat, u have to do some
self-observation, "y r they so fun? Wat attracts those babes to
them?"
This is wat I've observed from these so-called J-E-R-Ks(u can also
add-in ur own):
1)They r bold - they dare to do anything for their chicks, without
the fear of loosing their ego/face, they protected their gf
fiercely and almost always know wat to do in difficult
situations.
2)They know how to have fun - they r playful, but not to the
extreme, and they know WHERE to go to have fun
3)They know how to play dress-up - which means, they know how to
impress them at the 1st impression, which counts, bonus
points.
4)They look confident - yes, LOOK confident, but not
OVERLY-confident like some ego obsessed freak. The way they talk
the talk, walk the walk, the way they carry themselves, they way
they make themselves at home/feel comfortable, well tat doesnt mean
u can dig ur nose infront of the gals.
So those jerks ...to us.... are actually very loving bf(not all
though) to their gf. As for "devoted gf" they got, tat is only the
surface, but u do know it whether they r dating another guy behind
their back?? Or they go out with them because of the money?
Likewise to the guys.
ok ok... I'll stop here... getting long-winded. Doubt all of u have
the patience to read everything if I write anymore longer.
