Originally posted by Prince Cumming:
First of all, I wld like to say a [b]BIG
THANK YOU for ur controversial but helpful,
thoughts-provoking comments.
After the break-up, I did went thru a deep reflective process--- In
fact, she mentioned some of the stuff u said, like how I shld
appreciate her efforts for meeting up with me despite her hectic
schedules. Why she dressed casually cos she was tired after the
week of work.
Now, am I willing to do the same for her? My answer is a
honest YES
if anyone wld believe me. The reason I felt
shortchanged cos Im one who is willing to do a lot for my
partner. Maybe thats why I have high expectations towards her as
well.
Put urself in my shoes, do u think u or anyone wld feel
HAPPY in such a relationship. All the talks wont
change the fundamental fact that she is a busy person who can gives
very little to the relationship.
When Im outside alone or with my frens, I cant help but wonder
why I cant have a fulfilling & carefree relationships, like
the many couples whisking past me. Most of my peers have very free,
accommodating girlfriends, nice ppl who wld dressed up & make
an effort for their boyfriends.
Maybe I sound superficial with above words
but Im just being
unpretentious abt my feelings.
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By the way, have you considered that maybe you would be a
happier person being single? No point 'comparing' too. It just defy
the purpose...
