i think behind every sad story, which is divorce in this case,
there must be a reason. Though as a guy, dun say that i am being
MCP or siding with the husband. Firstly, what is the root of the
prob? This can only be solve if the husband and wife sit down and
talk. Maybe the wife had changed so much that she has become those
"market aunties"- sorry, no offence. 
maybe they dont understand each other, and only hanging onto
marriage because of children. There are lots of reasons, which non
of us can understand unless the couple talk it out.
OF COURSE its wrong of the husband to go out and play, and even
worse, supporting a mistress! In order for things to work out,
first, ask the wife to hire a PI to take pictures of the affair. DO
NOT let the husband know she has the evidence when they are
trashing out. ONLY, i said ONLY show it to the lawyer when they are
filing for divorce. As you know, guys like us, can sometimes bluff
our way thru if we know you have evidence. We will try and make
your heart soft, then........
Ask the wife to get a life, know the root of prob, and take
evidence at the same [email protected]@ 
