M©+square SG Let's face it. He's not the one you'll spend your life with And you're not ready. Cheers
macjoe SG Just have straight talk with your bf and ask if he really wants to be in an exclusive relationship with you, his gf. If he says no, then break off lah. Bf-gf relationship is always exclusive, not inclusive. It always become a problem when it's inclusive with other friend gals/guys without you in the picture.
Devil1976 SG It's too routine. Ever thought that 'something' missing in your relationship could be LOVE...? Even if that's not the case, love is certainly not well-expressed in your relationship... Your expectation... His expression... It could be the absence of love or something in your bf's character which make his expression in it a loow tone... Perhaps you would like to guide him on that
chguy SG what's missing in the relationnship?? love or chemistry<== gal's opinion<br /><br /><img src="/images/emoticons/classic/icon_idea.gif" alt="Idea" title="Idea"/> sex<===guy's opinion
subarugal SG Forget it whatever chemistry or love all craps from him.. i broke off with that guy. humh, happen this way. Last night again he tried to sweet talk me into bedding i guess its his last attempt on me, and jokingly me replied " if i given you i wonder where will you disappear to, haaaa ?" Initially i was really joking. but his reply back make me piss off, his repiled " In that case nothing much to talk, i dnt want to talk anymore" i replied " Oh com'on dnt be so petty, its a joke" he say " this is not petty, its just that you don't trust me" Me replied him " Ok fine, if that is what you want alright with me. I can't force you neither, Take Care " So THE END loh.. Idiot jerk.. But lucky i am not stupid also haaa... but just wasting my time on such guy..sigh... i guess he couldn't get anything from me that's why piss off.. heee Am i right guys ? Sick lah such guys..
M©+square SG Again you allow such relationship to get to you too easily. Not his fault exactly. Remember how i told you girls should protect themselves? You may need to raise the standard you're looking for in a guy. Get some activities to fill the void? For your good. Cheers
subarugal SG yes sir, heee... but correction my sir ! i am not lowering my standard that why i did not allow myself to commit mistake in-regard to sex. I have my sets of rulez but i learn something from this incident. that is to be a smart modern gal in this city, don't give in unneccessary to sex. Relationship doesn't come with sex like a offer packages. If having it is a bonus if not then love us wait for us. i am doing activities to fill my void. and i am proud to say i have been learning belly dancing for the past 1year, go out with my friends etc.. to keep myself busy. Planning to do my BSC if i have extra cash. But yet again i really appreciate you guys and gals for all the supports and advice. see you around ok.. ke ke... dont worry i am ok and not sad.. But rather feel i am lucky i didn't commit deeply into it. Really fellow gals keep our eyes big and open. GD LUCK ...
