Well, its nothing to go with gender. Its simply something to do
with two individuals....one wanting something, the other not so
sure.
Love and attraction are very difficult things to explain and
analyse, aren't they? Sometimes we know that someone/something is
really good, yet its appeal factor is low, no matter how hard we
try.
We just have to accept that in life, we can't get everything we
want. But to make up for it, there are some things which fall onto
our laps. For most cases in the end, everything falls into place
like a jigsaw puzzle and everything averages out.