Dear c2on2,
Since you haven't started being involved in a relationship with her
yet, perhaps it may be best that you don't pursue, as she has
already been critical of you even BEFORE she started a relationship
with you. Yet, she says you have abit of hope, No wonder you're
confused!
My guess is that perhaps she still likes the attention, & is in
No hurry to lose this ego-booster of knowing that somebody finds
her attractive & desirable?
All I can say is this, whilst sometimes constructive criticism is
healthy & good, her criticism of you is definitely Not in the
constructive criticism category. How are you going to grow tall
enough & get your shoulders broad enough? Is she looking for
someone to love, or a Hollywood Adonis to idolise?
There will be someone for you who will be able to treasure you for
what you are. That person will be able to bring you the bliss
you're searching for. Hang in there...
FeowFeow