how to get my dad to stop running thru my things?

last SG · 2005-05-10T18:30:43+00:00

u seem to have alot ofprobs with ur dad huh.

bismarck SG

he was looking for some casing while i was watching dvds on the com. i mean, i know waht;s in my room better than anyone. he asks for it while he looks thru my stuff and i tells him tehre isnt anything resembling the casing he wants. he's gone thru every inch of the house and he thinks he will find it in my room

i repeatedly told him it isnt there and he he just keeps on saying " got or not har? got or not har ? here got or not har ? there got or not har " got this colour or not har? ....." each time i say no. so i walked outta my room to get a drink and cool off and when i am back he;s still there.

he finally gives up possibly after he went thru the entire room. i dont understand, i mean i am ready to give him my new thumbdrive tht's double the capacity of the older thumbdrive he's trying to find a casing for .

i dont understand, i ignore him i get scolded for being disrespectful (as if he got anything to respect. ) i answer him and it seems it perpetuates his queries.

[email protected] SG

happens all the time. i think its hardwired into dads.

dibilo SG

unreasonable sia.. my dad would never do such a thing... maybe you can try telling him that u feel irritated by his behaviour, or you feel that you have no privacy even in your own room. tell him u've grown up and no longer the small kid you used to be, u need to have a little personal space. of coz, tell them in a clam, serious, respectful manner

dragg SG

just get use to it!!

CuteBeat SG

well..ask him to take a seat n drink some teh..for the thing will only appear when u are not really lookin for it.. Laughing

dragg SG

a certain spirit took it away. science said so!!!

bismarck SG

thanks for the tips.

i once tried telling them i need my space and another time i was quite happy abt the same issue and they screamed at me, citing i had something to hide.

Sad

starblue SG

my dad not supposed to get in my room when i am in it… but hell, he still does anyway… dads…...

Kenashi SG

buy some mouse traps, get a dog, adopt some pet that yr father hate Laughing

Tuatau SG

Privacy is a relatively new concept in Asian societies, and many Asian parents are still coming to grips with the idea of respecting their children's privacy. The increasing number of troubled teens getting into trouble with the law has certainly not helped matters either.

Guess this parental invasion of privacy is part of the growing-up process that many children, especially in Asian families, would have to put up with till the day they got married and/or moved out from the family home.

Apollo_sg SG

Is tat the only thing he does beingthe forgetful him?

how abt you buy him a tray, tell him to put his things in the tray and they wun gg shopping ard the house? it's like a hint to him actually.

but i used it to keep all stuff i take outta the house the next day.

bottomline: organize.

kopiosatu SG

wait till you’re older then no one will run through your things when you make noise.

nikeX SG

You consider lucky le lor...at least it's FATHER...

My FU(KING BROTHER always do that to my room. He's not looking for anything in particular, just that he wanna see if I got buy anything new so he can kope them . Always liddat de..that FU(KER.

It's not sometimes only...but every time de lor! He cb de. Gonna throw away his ring that his girfriend give him de if I really went berserk...CCB de..

He think he's older than me 6yrs old so wad..think he got muscle so wad..everytime act like dog liddat.. always threaten to beat me or whatever .

You consider very lucky le..if my dad do that to my room ar, then I'll let him lor. Since he's my father wad.. go outside play xbox awhile can le.

That damn fu(king brother of mine...always kope my things..kope my DOA poster, kope my Tenjo tenge jap manga, and make the condition worst..CCB..

He always liddat de.. never pay a single cent, yet when I buy tibits or whatever ar, hes the 1 eating most of them. Buy new game, the first person who play is him, got new comic, he first 1 to take and read. Yet my mother always side him..sianZZ..

23 years old liao still studying poly, say wanna go U .. siao la..if he can go U, I can be president liao lor! Got muscle no brain de. 23 yrs old le still nv go out and work during holidays, but only go out play and waste money on his girlfriend ONLY. Nv spend abit of money on home de. Infamous fu(ker..

fuck fuck fuck SG

fight it out

dragg SG

wow. you really dislike your brother!!

Shocked

laosu SG

Oh...for me easy...I stick a note on my door stating "There's nothing in here you need" and everyone leave my room alone.

Axelheat755 SG

so simple... put all ur cigarettes, condoms, porn mags n vcds out in the open... den they cannot say u got things to hide le... den u will get ur own little space Mr. Green

dragg SG

you registered just to give him this advice?

so touching!!

Embarassed

laosu SG

Nah nah..just happen to register and saw this. Anyway..I really don't like ppl to mess with my bedroom things...even if they are parents.

shade343 SG

Why throw away the ring? Sell it. Take the money and use it to buy back the stuff which he damaged. Laughing Btw, how come you let him enter your room and rummage through your stuff?