Hi applestrudz,
Communication is the key for couples to understand each other
better and to a better relationship. Be it that you are still in
the dating stage or officially in a relationship, communication is
very important. Sometime, couples like to play "read-my-mind" game,
they usually don't speak up their mind or simply say things that
they don't mean and wanted the other party to guess and understand
what is wrong. It is a common pitfall in a relationship and the way
to overcome it is through proper communication and
understanding.
Enough of that, I like to point out that don't let "pride" get in
the way of a relationship. From the earlier posting, I was afraid
that it is because either of you are too"proud" to make the 1st
move. You see, if it is because of pride that either parties will
not take a step back or back down, this will cause a lot of
unwanted misunderstanding and fight. What is the point of "winning"
a "cold war"? You may have retain your "pride", but you may lost
something truly more important and precious.
Since you feel that there is a mutual understanding and some
chemistry between you two, why not pluck up your courage, stop
guessing or waiting and start doing. Like I mentioned earlier, he
made his first small move already, why not accept his invitation to
do some catching up during a coffee session after treating him to a
dinner because he had offer his help to you.
Like you say, in a relationship, or in the topics of feelings or
emotion, there is no right or wrong, it is just if the party is
suitable for you that's all. Try it handle this issue properly, try
to talk with each other.
Whatever is your decision, I wish you all the best. Good luck.
