Originally posted by victimgal:
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"Heav'n hath no rage like love
to hatred turn'd,
Nor Hell a fury, like a woman scorn'd."
- William Congreve
One could sympathise with your agony and anger, one could also
understand your well-meaning intentions to warn potential victims,
but your intentions may seem to be misplaced. This is a forum for
people to seek third-party solutions and views on agonising
relationship (and sometimes health) problems, not for people to put
up angry public notices of perverse boyfriends and faithless
partners.
If the girls here are smart, even when you don't put this post of
warning, they'd still be able to protect themselves from guys like
him. If they are not, your post may be able to warn them from one
guy (that is if they actually bothered to remember his face), but
there is a high chance they'd still end up getting taken advantage
of by other guys like him out there.
Every coin has two sides. You are entitled to your side of the
story. Imagine if this guy saw your post and decided to put up your
picture, telling everybody here his side of the story, with all the
juicy and salacious details of your behaviour from his point of view as toppings.
How would you feel?
More importantly, who would the people here believe?
