Originally posted by slamdoink:
Well, it had happened again
this time round I lose the
battle.
"It had happened again". That means it had happened before. Has
your girlfriend already cheated on you twice, including this
time?
Even if she chose you again, even if you won this battle again,
could you still bring yourself to trust her again? How many more
battles like this could you bear to face? Do you really want to be
"always be bother about this"?
It is no battle lost. Not when what you could gain by winning is
not the heart of a girl, but the name of a cuckold.
It is a battle won. Your letting go has won you dignity for
yourself, respect from your peers, gratitude of one whose love you
no longer have, and, last but not least, the chance to give your
heart to another more deserving.
You're not stupid -- you're just too involved. Time is the best
healer. See open...
