Quesntion!!

need help SG · 2005-05-11T11:48:19+00:00

No No, send back to the "kung bushman era" hahahaha

need help SG

i hav a fren who married a divorced female and suffered many criticisms. What do u ppl think ? What are your opinions of a divorced person?

drx SG

they are still human after all
what is there to be comment?

the Bear SG

still a person.. why criticise?

sheesh!! it's as if a person cannot have another go at happiness..

i think whoever criticise them, need to grow up and drink a carton of shut-up juice!

drx SG

they are still human after all
what is there to be comment?

iwillsurvive SG

as loong as u love the other party its ok

and "ur friend" is u. just admit it

iwillsurvive SG

as loong as u love the other party its ok

and "ur friend" is u. just admit it

BonJovi SG

wassup wif tt

morbid SG

1 comment. Shouldn’t ur QUESNTION be Spelled Q-U-E-S-T-I-O-N?

need help SG

sorry... im only 18... im still schling how can i be married? u guys think being a person who had divorced be4 is ok?

browniebaobao SG

Divorced means that she is free to marry again.

What's the prob?

She has the right to find her happiness again.

bo liao SG

i in no position to say anything but i feel the best will be ask yourself

1.Would you mind if ur relatives say rubbish in time to come?Some relatives is like tat, at least mine is lik tat.always kbkp.

2.Marry who say cannot marry, but who going pay for the wedding lea? not cheap lea....or now u save up abit den later set a date lor.Either u go ROM 1st lah.but under 21 need ur parents agreement.

3.(Hope i dun sound offensive)Sometime in a relationship, u will lik hynotise yourself tat she is the best, when she divorce b4.(i dun mean she is bad,cos sometime married char bor are knn, some are good,have to open eyes big big)

4. Can u substained the family by urself? if u marry in the near future , den hv baby, u study, she pregnent, u dun expect her to go work mah..correct.. Rolling Eyes then sqeeze wid ppl on bus. U need $$.

5. i would feel best is u now stay wid her to see how is she 1st,can she last for long, threat u good etc. then slowely plan ur moves.

6.Marry is easy, divorce is knn, hv to pay the monthly alimony,got children u more jia lat.

Gd Luck Friend.

bo liao SG

)Haha.. post liao then read...ok..getting along wid a divorce person is jus the business of 2 people nia, mouth is others one, dun care what they say,some can tahan, some may not, some may even cause of those rubbish go do foolish things.

Some people dun hv "KOU DE" (i sometime also Embarassed as when i tulan, i say till the person's whole family )

Ask ur friend if he is real wid his parthner, the more he should be wid her, conforting her, shielding her from those knn rubbish.

There is nothing wrong being wid a person tat devoric b4, if he find its the right person, got the right charactor, den should be ok liao.

sleepycat SG

if your fren is 18, like you, he'll hurt himself eventually.

divorced or not, it's how much each desire & decide to commit to the other.

Tuatau SG

A divorced person is a just a person who has had a failed relationship with the legal papers thrown in. Most adults have had experienced at least one failed relationship, so what is the problem?

The social stigma associated with divorcees, especially females, is the fact that they are confirmed "used" or "pre-owned", and that some may even come with "buy-one-get-one/two-free" bonuses. That is, unfortunately, prevalent in Asian societies that are coming to grips with the liberal dating situation, but are still somewhat rooted in traditional beliefs when it comes to marriage.

If your friend truly cares for his wife, then he should not be too bothered by her past. Nobody is perfect, and everybody makes bad choices. Focusing on the past would only prevent him from working on the future with his wife.

Moreover, your friend is not marrying to get approval from other people. They are not going to spend the rest of their lives with him. Why should he care what they think?

margarita SG

divorced is not a crime

littlestream SG

Applause : clap, clap, clap.......indeed a good one!!! Wink

And actually all of the other writers too!!! Wink

drx SG

if your friend cannot take such simple things then why marry a divorced lady in the first place?

From day one your friend should have know that people will say about them, then why complain now ?

If he loves her he should take it in his stride and instead of mopping around.
He should help his new wife face all the criticisms not listern in to them.

hyuuga neji SG

dun judge ppl by their past marriage...
judge them based on their character...
if she is a good person...
give them your blessings lor...

chonsou SG

normally people who criticise are those who themselves are not much better!

kopiosatu SG

i'm the only one in my duty team who's not dating a divorcee. Laughing