Dear Aunt Agony,
Hi. I'm writing here because I'm at a loss.... I'm 21, currently
studying in a tertiary instituion. Hmmmm.... I have problems
choosing between 2 guys. Let's call them Mr A and Mr C.
Mr A is my current schoolmate whom I got to know a year ago doing a
school project. But we didn't keep in touch and I many months later
(recently), I bumped into him in school again. After that, we met
for lunch, followed by more lunches subsequently. Now he asked me
out and message me everyday so the hint that he is interested is
pretty broad.
Mr C is someone I know for....... like 8 years because he's my
secondary school classmate. He liked me for 6 years now. I didn't
know he likes me until last year when he told me. I was very
surprised... and touched by his sincerity but initially, I didn't
like him because of his size.... he's very overweight and I thought
we are quite different and not suitable for each other. But he
never failed to touched me with his sincerity. I remember he gave
me a very big help a couple of times....
Mr A... is 24 years old, very smart, driven and capable. Unlike Mr
C, he's tall and skinny. Hmmm.... I'm not very sure about what his
character is like because I don't know him for long. I do know that
we have different religions. Character is a very important criteria
for me cos I'm very afraid to make the mistake of choosing someone
like my ex - stingy, unfaithful and nit-picking. Mr C is definitely
a very nice guy but he's quite immature and because he's my age, he
still has to study for a few years while I work. As for Mr A, older
and more mature, I think he'll go far but character wise, I know
very little. I need more time to get to know Mr A but I can tell Mc
C is definitely a nicer person as in less temperamental, more
honest....
I think I know that Mr C likes me a lot and is very accepting, very
accommodating to me. I feel more at ease with him too cos he's my
sec school friend. Mr A.... studied at very good schools in the
past, unlike me whom come from a very mediocre school. I feel that
I have to "act more intelligently" all the time. Heh...
I don't know which to be with. If I go with Mr A, I'll break Mr C's
heart. And is Mr A really worth that although he's smart, capable
and everything? Or should I just go with Mr C who likes me a lot,
with good character, a simpler and more innocent person....
Opinions? I would really, really appreciate advices and
opinions.... Thank you!
