mal_colm1979 SG Hi all Its me again.. Was wondering how long will it ever take for a person to recover from a broken relationship? What are the things you people do to forget about it and walk away from it as a better person? Any cranky or funny things you all did?? its been almost a month since i ended mine.. Strangely as i went on with my life, i still find it hard to cope without her... Sigh... The things that Love brings into your life can only be felt after it has left you for good.. If that is the case, Why can't human stop falling in Love... Ironic ironic... still trying to figure this out. Life is full of contradiction, if you want to give it to me then don't ever take it away from me.. Will He really open another door when one closes?? Still recovering.......
rainee SG It depends...the longer you dwell on it, the longer it will take you to get over it. But if you choose to try and let go and not think about the past anymore, you will get over it soon Happiness lies in your own decision.
SinGaporGuy SG it could take forever…............ go do something meaningful wif ur life.. then u find that u had been veri stupid..
meblurblur SG Maybe you could consider joining some activities, starts to go out with your friends???? Soon you will forgot about her and you have actually learned some new...... Be positive, there are lots of girls outside...it just a matter of time to get a new one.. CHeers!!!!
browniebaobao SG If you have sorten out your thoughts and move on, if you no longer long for her and think of the times you spent together..If you treat her as a passer by, someone whom you can't make her stay but thankful to her that she ever made a difference to your life.. and move on, carry on with your life...you are only not used to be without her..not that you can't live without her.
Danisdead101times SG well,it all depends on how you think..looking on the bright sides and be positive in your thinking may helps you to get out of it soon..but if you choose to self-discremation there is no one can help you also..so just hopefully you can get what i mean and show her that you can actually you can lead a meaningful life even without her presence~
Wind SG While you are writing something, out shopping or watching TV, she suddenly came into your mind. You feel a little nostalgic, and you smile to yourself. Obviously, she will be somewhere in your memory. But I guess, that is when you have got over her.
thelesis SG Is not easy to forget someone who you loved before. It may take you months or even year to forget about him? what you should is to set yourself some goals and spend more time with yr family. if you want to cry out, just cry out because after crying out will make you feels better. always remember the next day you still have to carry on so why make yourself so miserable? always look at the bright side..
GaLtwenty SG mal_colm1979, I can understand your problem. I also have this problem.It's not easy to let go.But it may consume your life like how it did in my case. U got to seek help from counselling. in the end it's all in your own mind. Whenever u think of the person, try to keep yourself busy, go out of the house or meet up with a close friend u can confide in.Or u can listen to fast music like pop songs ect. If all the above methods fail, think that the person is just beside u and hope that one day u would bump into her. Think that it had been a valuable experience in life and that there are many souls around you with the same problem. Try to mingle with those with similar problems and form a suppport group. It might help
Ayla SG Everybody has to go through this stage in life. There is no such thing in life that you'll forget about her. It's just the amount of time you WANT to put in, to heal your heartpain. Be positive and hang around more often with friends. All the best.
varatare SG Hi mal_colm1979 I am sorry to tell you at the rating u are wincing, it will take forever. Regards
Devil1976 SG The more you try, the more you'll be reminded that there's THIS PERSON you need to get rid off from your mind.... It's when you cease to try, then the person no longer has a reason to be bothering you from your memory...
