Well my suituation is the same as your good friend although I
think we r not that good yet, since I know her for only....2mth.
But she is willing to share some of her family problem with me, so
I think she is still quite comfortable with me. I understand ur
friend's plight for distance u away, and he might be suffering the
same problem with me...for moving on. But the difference between me
and him is I won't give up this friend of mine and I wish her
happiness.
Currently she is not seeing someone although I suspect she might
have admire somebody already. She told me she dun want to have
relationship yet and say she might stay single forever. But I try
not to think so much on wat she say now, if she has found a good
companionship, I will be happy for her. To love someone is not to
own, but to wish for happiness her.
Finally I thank u for all who gave me sincere advice. I already
know what I want and will procced to do so. Next time if i post in
AA side, hopefully the tittle should be " Yay, I finally found a
mei lar" instead of those sad sad stories. Cheers. 
