Dear RamblingJoe,
It's been a long time since you've posted. How are you, & how
is working in Vietnam? : )
To answer your question, I would hope that my guy isn't with me
because of whatever I can bring him, but because he genuinely loves
me for who I am. Just pose yourself the question, whether or Not
you would feel good if you found out that a girl wanted to be with
you because of the security you bring, Not due to your
personality.
It's hard to fall in love with someone after splitting with someone
whom you'd loved for a long time, but before you enter a
relationship now, please give yourself enough time to heal. Only
then, will you be able to enter another relationship for the right
reason, love.
FeowFeow