Should I be k-poh ?

Desmond Chow SG

I know a friend of mine who is a guy and i know his gf as well .My friend is two timing her all the time and i wonder should i be so k-poh to go tell the gf or just aiya not my business anyway .My friend is going to batam to visit pros and then later he will stay at his second gf house in singapore after his batam trip .As for his first gf ,i think wait for him to come back from overseas lor .she still don’t know that her bf is playing outside with pros and have a 2nd gf in singapore though she is his 1st gf .what a bastard i must say .Should I close one eye as his bf is the kind of high risk category people who will kena stds all aids not i splash him cold water but the way he play he also never think of his 1st gf whom i know .

blowfish SG

still need to ask?

Desmond Chow SG

i scared later people say why i break them up all these mah not very nice what but i see the gf very pity like that kena cheated till like that also don't know still think the bf very good .I see liao also buay song got 1 gf not like the gf don't give him but he still want to go out play Mad

Oyster Omelette SG

Erm, hire a PI or take secret shots of her bf and ask someone close to you to send it to her for proof?

Desmond Chow SG

she and i also not that close hire PI i fork out money and later she know she say i k-poh then i kena bang

R3SsH|n SG

the guy is being so unfaithful to the girl...yet u want the girl to risk getting aids?
you might lose a fren if u tell the girl...but u will "kill" the girl if you don't warn her...
anyways...i guess if u try to "quan" your fren...chances are he won't listen...guys are like that...
so better save the girl...be fair to her Exclamation
Wink

Oyster Omelette SG

Why not ask one of her close friends to accompany you to see the light and then tell her not to credit you for finding out his wayward actions.

R3SsH|n SG

i dun't even noe u yet i still reply ur question...am i being k-poh?
lolz....its concern lahz brother...human beings...can help just help...won't kill you oso Laughing

Desmond Chow SG

i 'quan my friend already but no use he still go play and somemore he fark sometimes he no use condom that's what he told me .I only met his gf 3 times only i have her hp no but never call her b4 unless important things. His bf and i are business friends so please advise me what to do .We have alot of business dealings together

Desmond Chow SG

I don't know any of her close friends except his bf because we are business partners .

Desmond Chow SG

like you say can save then save not like I don't want to save but later say I busy body .But still i don't wish the innocent girl to get anytime from that unfaithful bastard and do you know I don't like that unfaithful bastard but still we have to go KTV and still have to hang around with him pretending to be smiling for what all because of 3 square meals no choice

Oyster Omelette SG

whoa, you seems to be in denial, since you are not willing to expose his dirty antics for your 3 square meals (I presume you choose this as your most important option then his girl), then just keep quiet about it. But the choice is yours, you either live in guilt or regret. Guilt-Chances of girl getting aids is high. Regret-your 3 square meals/buddy.

Desmond Chow SG

I want to tell but also don't want to be a busybody so I come here see can find any advise lor i went KTV with his bf before and he only wants to drink and play only not talk business .I saw him riding a hostress raw infront of me .I am thinking of telling my wife all these later she say why you go KTV all these but boils down to it girl and girl easier to talk .Problem :my wife never even meet his gf b4

drx SG

I am a person who go for facts lor,
so I will give you details of what I have found out .

1) first explore the fact of why the gf likes the boyfriend?

1a) Does the girl love the guy very much and willing to die for him?

If yes then forget about even telling this type of girl cos it will not be of any use.
Through the years I have seen this type of gals are willing to share bf or husband with any girl. What you do will not mean anything to her.

1b) what type of girl is she ? conservative type, native type, smart type or the wild type?

1b1) Wild type, no point in telling. Maybe she also want threesome? hehe just kidding!

1b2) Conservative type, Never have sex before at least she is still safe from the bf. She still can be save and the only type i feel that is worth the effort in saving!!!

1b3) Native type. wah this type is the hardest. will believe in bf no matter wat you say. Got one case even when the gf saw that the bf is having sex with another gal, keep on saying that they are just playing around.

1b4) Smart type. just hint can liao, they will know what to do.

2) Do you think the guy is yao dao and know the art of sweet talking?

Sadly this is true if the guy is good looking then will attract more gals everywhere he goes and with his sweet talking skills will dissolve any attempt from you to break them up.

My suggestion is this
know what type of girl you are dealing with and think carefully if your advice will have any effect on her. If nothing goes into her head or love is all that she can think of then do not borther. why waste time ?

Please read on if you think she can be save from her evil bf or else do not waste your time.

Ok now that you have decided that she is worth the effort and will at least willing to act once you have hinted her or say anything.

Then this the part where I will teach the art of hinting :

1) Girls are very sensitive people. hehe! Oi relax lar, this is not some XXX story. They are prone to hearsay. just spread among her friends that you saw her bf with girl and holding and kissing the news will spread.

2) If can try to take photo of 2nd gf with the bf. The next time when he goes batam. You invite her and her friends out for ktv or wat. The idea is to slip the photo into her bag without her knowing.

3) you know her email rite so just use an unknown email address and sent the photo to her email address.

4) Use a new number to sms her the full details of her bf misdeed.

5) This one is the killer blow: Paste the A1 size photo of the bf and the 2nd gf have sex or kissing on her front door. Then siam asap. This method sounds like a loanshark rite? hehe But the effect is the greatest cos her mama and papa will for sure kick the bf ass out for you.

Final Thought Mr. Green
What I have say here is to be use with caution.
You got to think carefully first.
I can offer only ideas thats all.
The rest is up to you to decide what to do.

Oyster Omelette SG

Then tell your wife that your buddy is forcing you go KTV to 'talk business'. Erm, why must your wife meet his gf? Btw, if you tell her that that's your buddy's gf, she will not suspect of you anything one mah. To me, you seem to be afraid that if your wife saw his gf, you will be immediately labelled as 'fooling around'. Sounds to me your wife don't trust you that much? or lack of communication?

Since you stated that you don't want to be a busybody, all the more it stops you from telling and thus giving all sorts of excuse (like this one about wife not seeing his gf before) If you are really determine to expose him, you should have already went ahead and do it. Oh don't be mistaken that i'm trying to scold you or something, because it's indeed a really confusing battle between you and your 'evil' side.

Oyster Omelette SG

I tell you what, when your buddy is fooling around, quickly rush to a nearby telephone booth and call his gf up in a different voice Laughing

Desmond Chow SG

I think of this b4 too but he sure know I bao tou one lor

R3SsH|n SG

business is business...if you wanna put business before conscience...then sorry bro...no can help...
since u are married...i guess u should be old enough to have kids...think about it...if the girl was your daughter...yet she "pak bodoh" tio AIDS from someone...then her whole life would be ruined...as a parent...i bet u would wanna kill that b******...
business is one thing...but treating another human being fair is much greater...
talk to your wife...if she is sensible...as a woman...she can give u a different perspective on the situation...
but i strongly encourage you to WARN the girl...if she doesn't believe...at least try minimum to convince her...show her evidence or something...she will be grateful to you...
good luck...

Troy437 SG

Thats right. YOu are not being K-poh. You are saving someone’s life from being ruin by this bastard.

grief00 SG

Since you've her number, i think you can just use a different number to sms her to inform her about her bf's bad deeds. Just say that you're someone close to her, but yet don't want her to know who you are. You reason for doing this is to prevent her from being cheated by that guy. I'm sure she'll appreciate a lot and won't really care about who sent her the msgs.

However, make sure that there are other people around them that know about the bf's behaviour in batam and such. If not, sooner or later, he'll know that it is u who "bao to".