For instance, he like bo liao will
msg me where am i, wana ask me out, tt's still ok cos we are
consider "relatives" ma..
however recently he like to mention abt sex stuff and relationship
stuff.. hinted by saying tt he know im not as decent as i looked,
stuff like tt.. said tt i'm single and alone for too long le,
desperate etc.. asked me abt my sex life.. pengz..
His idea is to test whether you are the so call " easy girl ". He
wants to bed you as soon as possible without paying for it. This
type of guy will keep pushing the idea of sex into your head. Haha
this type of method already so old liao no one using liao haha...
He must really be in heat to be using this.
I explain the method a bit for you to understand how he uses
it.
He chose a so call easy target. he knows the target has no
boyfriend or is alone at the moment. He will try his best to ask
the target out as he knows the best why to handle the target is to
be as close as possible. He will keep asking about sex stuff making
the target feel curious and start asking him about it. Then he will
push for the idea of sex into the target's head by slowly teaching
the target to explore herself or to find out wat she wants in her
sex life and give it to her. Then bingo he have sex with the girl
after that laughing at the target for being so dumb. It will
incease his ego and he will find another target.
This method require some time and effort to use but he make a very
big mistake. He goes in too fast and never gain target's trust
first.
Why I say his type of method already so old liao no one using is
becos now days sex is like a everyday stuff. Just ask most of the
gals this days if they willing to try it and you can have liao no
need to put so much effort lar.
i find it very disturbing and
uncomfortable... it's like i dun even know him well, how dare he
said all those thing of me.. what is this idiot trying to do?
i felt an invasion of privacy when he asked me those qns... I now
even fear to go out with him..
Ways to counter this method.
1) Change handphone without telling him
2) Totally ignore him. As his method requires the target to
response but if target never response then no hope liao.
3) say that you are a lesbo
4) attack his ego by saying like he cannot make it , he not
handsome or he got no money, etc
am i too sensitive?
Final thought : You are right to be sensitive. YOu have to protect
yourself have people like him and no one can help unless you are
willing to help yourself.
