Dear Lance,
I was giggling about what you'd said. You're Not sure if you're
going to hurt her by your flirtatious nature, but you do know that
she MAY be hurt by your flirtatious nature 1 day.
What difference is there? You're pretty much certain that she may
be hurt by your flirtatious nature, which will be caused by
you.
From what I gather, you're trying to justify that you will not hurt
her deliberately but she might be hurt by you "accidentally"
flirting with other girls "without being conscious of it"?
Bottomline 
She will
be hurt IRREGARDLESS of whether you flirt consciously or Not
consciously because you KNOW that flirtatious behaviour is INHERENT
in you.
For the girl's sake, I would advise you to have a heart & Not
pursue her. However, since you're probably only here to have people
VALIDATE your choice, I'm sorry if this offends.
FeowFeow
