Originally posted by misery=(:
all along, i have not been able to fully recover from the "setback"
from my friendship with my first best friend. i can't understand
why she would suddenly "disappear" from my life. we did not quarrel
or have any misunderstanding but she just left without any
explanation and left me danggling there, not knowing what she was
thinking, what exactly had happened. i was terribly hurt.
Friends, even best friends, are not possessions. They come and
go in our lives -- we can't stop them. Blessed is the person who
could find one friend for life. As friendships fade and die off,
though an explanation would be in order, there are times when it
really is not necessary. And sometimes, laying the reasons out in
the open may just aggravate the hurt on both sides, so some people
just choose to let nature take its own course. When that happens,
move on and open your heart to let other friends enter.
Don't take it personally, but you really ought to change your nick.
Misery attracts misery.
