Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Basically its nothing. I am responsing to certain
issue that is meant to be ignored by all except me.
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Divorcee-kinda relationship?
Every woman has that kind of vulnerability in love. Their emotions
has a door that fits certain keys. The ones that cannot be seduced
are the ones isolated into solitude love life by birthright -
unresponsive like virgin Goddess Artemis, desire to be unattached
and kept their heart shut.
A very much older divorcee man (VMODM for short) understand this
logic completely. A young man, even though he could have any woman
he wanted, would find it difficult to emulate the air and feel of a
VMODM. They have their own charm no doubt, but its a different
thing with what maturity seduction gives.
In astrology, Saturn's staying power is like wine - gets better
with age. And ALL VMODM knows how to make use of this planetary
influence and of course, Younger woman with Saturn in 7th house
could likely marry an older man (although not neccessary
chronologically speaking).
I wouldn't say an absolute NO to such relationship, however, I am
more concern about the love attitude this man is equipped
with.
There are solid reasons why marriages fail - [b]they don't fail for
no reasons. Many times, it's the individual, not cause of
the marriage itself. Sometimes its the life of the individual -
people reject BGR cosmic lesson are forced to absorb the challenges
their marriage bring forth. Some failed badly... others survived on
a thin line.
A young woman, greenhorn in love, being tapped onto their
vulnerability by VMODM, finds it enriching.
Psychologically and emotionally - there are four factors why VMODM
would choose a very much younger woman. (Or vice vista in the
woman's case)
I) To restore fallen charm (Feminine Charm)
II) Fatherly figure (Vice vista)
III) Desire for the youth... the innocence (Maturity)
IV) Easier to satisfy than woman of his peers. (Material
satisfaction and abundance)
P.S: Attractions works in dual mode. With our needs being satisfied
in any relationships, mutually and simultaneously. 
Cheers [/b]
i agree with yunhaier's points as follows:
I) To restore fallen charm (Feminine Charm) [color=darkblue](tis i
truely agree because vmodm has the charms to turn on like a tap as
they have "experienced" many types of women
II) Fatherly figure (Vice vista) (true also, they need someone to
"protect" them and give them advice, maybe a younger guy cant
satisfy these needs)
III) Desire for the youth... the innocence (Maturity) (true, the
old man wants innocence, the young gal wants maturity)
IV) Easier to satisfy than woman of his peers. (Material
satisfaction and abundance) (true also, becuz women his age wld
have achieved alot and dun want a man who hasnt achieved alot but
women younger wouldnt have achieved much and think that a man
having car would be damn great) [/color]
