Consult a professional marriage councilor.. Ask her/him to be
the middleman to negotiate for better living conditions.. If things
deterioate, You can always move out to your parents' house
temporally, till her gives in to your demand.. If not, Against his
decisions, go and work, earn your own keep, till he knows that you
have your own rights. Hes trying to put you down by disallowing you
to work. From the way he keeps going out to drink at nights, he
might be having more flings than you ever thought. darn him. Hes a
bloody jerk. Hes spoiling your life. You should learn to enjoy life
more. Your children? Yeahz, they gotta learn to cope. Discuss with
your children about their dad. If they share the same sentiments as
you. Divorce is AN option. Find a better guy, Im sure your children
won't mind. In the worst case, they will be with their dad. Hahz.
Less troubles.
Well. Thats just an alternative. YOu dun wanna be blackmailed in
the future, when your husband turns bankrupt, and you well off with
another guy, and he comes back and demand cash from you, children
from you, and mess up your "perfect" marriage.
Talk to him. He might be suffering from much stress from work and
can't find an outlet to de-stress. Try to make him smile more often
with simple surprises like a fabulous dinner, sharing wine with him
etc. More communication is the critical point in this case.
Will i, ever see you smile again
will you, ever kiss me gently anymore?
will love, turned up when the moon shines
will us, ever become like the past
or will you not.
Lah~ =D Tis poem's for you. Good luck in Whatever choices you are
planning to make.
