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last SG · 2005-04-17T15:23:50+00:00

Coming to this forum may give one the impression that relationships are so fragile, so fickle these days. However, it could also be that people in strong hea...

usck SG

someone send my gf home today by car. i called her hp wanting to talk to her, then she say explain to me next time y her friend send her home todae. then i ask y now cant explain then she say dun wei nan her. Crying or Very sad
haiz..

mistyblue SG

do you trust her?
slowly hear her out.

mistyblue SG

do you trust her?
slowly hear her out.

IceTea SG

Have a little faith in urself lah. Mr. Green

usck SG

i going to see wad she going to say loh..haiz.. Crying or Very sad

mistyblue SG

be patient. Let her have her space. You also remain calm and if anything happens, you can also handle ah

usck SG

haiz..i sms her, nvr reply, called her, hung up then now nvr on hp..

Tuatau SG

She is probably tired or busy. Give her time.

Maybe it is also a good opportunity for you to reflect on yourself and the relationship. If she had a change of heart, it wouldn't be just because the guy sent her home by car.

aCid_rAIn SG

patience is a virtue.
rushing onto things may make it worse. give a little space and time to both of u.

usck SG

she now haven reach home... Crying or Very sad

harrow SG

Sorry if i sound pessimistic guys... but it sure sounds fishy... Keep us in view.
Meanwhile, be calm and try to act as per normal. (=nonchalant?)

I-Me-Myself SG

mayb handphone low batt le...dun tink so much...
love is all abt trust.

usck SG

thanks for all ur advice.. Crying or Very sad

Ledikusa SG

She's being intimidated. You can't do anything except to stand strongly by her. She will have to stand up against the advances of this guy by herself... If you interfere it would turn into a more messy situation and your GF may end up hating you for it. This guy probably experienced a broken relationship and is telling your GF all about it.. Your GF's most probably a nice and kind girl.. Who listens attentively, take cares of all her friends.. blar blar.. Give her time anyway.. If you are really that persistent in trying to know what happen, ask her good friends lor. Twisted Evil Oh well.. Whatever happens, Stay firm! Do not weaken! Smile Good luck!~

littlestream SG

I agree with all of the above posts. Don't think too much about things that hasn't happen yet....whatever it may be. You do need to be calm and be patient. For your sake, for your girlfriend's sake as well as for the sake of the relationship. She will definitely appreciates your understanding. Like the earlier post, have faith in yourself. You cannot control how others speak or react but you can control your ownself.....your speech, your attitude and your reactions.

All the very best.

Devil1976 SG

Are you always asking her about such things?

Yunhaier SG

Only to have someone send her back home by car... and you have already shaken the entire trust foundation of your relationship.

Unless you are telling me that there are already problems in your relationship, (she is showing signs of drifting for example) you ought to focus more on important aspects of your love instead of worrying over silly things like this.

Cheers

[email protected] SG

probably that someone likes her, and she is trying to be diplomatic about it by accepting the ride but doesn't want to say it straight out that she doesn't fancy the guy in that way. u worry too much. u know how much it pisses gals off when u start coming up with conspiracy theories that she's cheating on u? it pisses gals off so much that she starts wondering if she should be with you. so well done i say. Laughing

usck SG

maybe i too rush liao. but there is nth wrong with me and my gf. haiz..maybe is think too much. just now she reply me, say that is her friend, go out eat supper and thats it. and she also say dun restrict her freedom.. Crying or Very sad

starblue SG

she’s scared she later yue4 miao3 yue4 hei1, explain to you later scared you’ll even more dun trust her. give her assurance loh…