do u check your bf/gf's hp msgs?

mek SG

jus wondering if you ppl read ur partner's hp msgs... y do u or do not? is it a sign of distrust or insecurity Question

shade343 SG

Well..if they allow me why not? Laughing

browniebaobao SG

No. Just as i like to have my privacy...i will respect him also.

mek SG

w/o their knowledge?

mastdfj SG

no unless she show me...
but i dun mind her reading lar..
actually we no secrets btwn us,
but still it's a form of respect

FireIce SG

nope.

ignorance is bliss

KeN3 SG

yupz... i agree..

mach10 SG

reading sms... haizz...

see ur gf wat type... if she insecure type... den she read coz she dun trust you.

normally nothing wrong, but still... there ought to be some respect here.

zrahf SG

for me....not everytime ba(oni when she shows me)....for her its a muz to chk mine ar... Mr. Green

Troy437 SG

I go thru her hp…bcoz she ask me to help her clear her sms. Too many useless sms slowing the hp speed.

fabiaN__ SG

I agree! Haha.. and it is also a form of trust and respect for your gf/bf. Checking on the messages that she/he received will only betray the trust between you and her/him.

But things are different if she/he volunteers to show you some messages lah. Haha.. if not, I think one should not even think of checking the messages of his/her gf/bf!

SGpork SG

nope...

dont think its good to do that...

mach10 SG

Some times when she volunteer let u see her sms, idea is to force u to let her "see" yours... den >> interrogation time! Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

No. It's a respect for her privacy.

Whether it's a sign of distrust or insecurity depends on how the 2 parties see it and on the situation in which the event takes place?

M©+square SG

I reckon you have your thoughts when this question is posted?
What do you think is the implication behind? What is the reason you want to read ur partner's sms?

I'm more interested to know your answer.

starblue SG

my dad dunno how to read his messages (yes, he came from the moutains...). and when i read his messages, i found out that he (or maybe his friends helped him) subscribed to some erotic sms chat lines.

if you wanna read your partner's smses, be prepared for this.

BufPuf SG

won't check
coz he automatic will tell me

who msg me i also will tell him
if he with me..i will just show him the msg or ask him read the msg for me
if not ard..will just tell him who msg me..and the overall content

mek SG

cos i heard my fren checks her bf's msgs duno is with or w/o his knowledge then jus thot in future will i do it... on one hand i think its shows distrust.. n i think i wont want to do it.. on the other hand being a very insecure person i would still have thots of doing it actually...

mach10 SG

horns dun grow overnight. Twisted Evil
simple as tt...

fabiaN__ SG

Haha.. can... no prob man. Laiiiiii who wanna check my Inbox?!