We sms each other everyday. I always ask her to go out with me or a
meet up, even if I need to travel all the way to the shopping mall
near her house. But she always reject me or stood me up..most of
the times lor. We hardly meet up, she said she takes breakfast at
home, skip lunch and eat dinner at home, so I could hardly meet her
for a meal as well you see..
Regarding the car, she told me she is not that stupid to take up
that offer, she said her parents want her to be independent, in
other words want her to die, coz she need to slog and pay for the
car in a long run.
And ya, I've never been to her place. Strange right? She shifted
home since 1997 and I've never even been to her place once. I
always asked why her frens can go, I cannot? She said she wants to
be a good host, with things to entertain me etc. I said I dun mind
all these, I'm not an outsider, we are so close, and do away with
those stuff. But she suggested we buy a flat and stay together in
the future if we are both still single by then.
I din want to dare her also lor. Even she dun care about herself,
at least dun make the people around her worry mah. Outings? Like I
mentioned, it's very hard to get her out. The last time I met her
was in January, at my father's wake.