when do we move on in relationships

Steph84 SG

i am so shattered.. i think i really depend too much on my bf.. somehow my life revolve around him?

every little thing affects me so much.. i used to be non-chalent, guys only.. this one dun have got other guys... how can i go back to my past life?

I need a life man.

why is it that i allowed myself to totally absorb him into my life? i really regret it. i dunno why the hell are there BGR in this world.. love can be such a wonderful feeling.. it can sux big time too.

KamHoe SG

just ask him "why".
maybe he want a slightly more independent girl.

First thing to do is go back to your family. Not to the bar or pub. Very Happy

coffeeortea SG

yeah.. family and friends =D.. also, based on your title, you cant really tell when do you move on in relationships. the best guide would be the relationship itself, or the people in it. It is all on that first step that either party makes at the right time. when is the right time? only the people in the relationship know.

Marmalade Boy SG

If it doesn't work out, take it easy...
Who knows, you might even meet someone else who is better than your current boyfriend...
Love can be a good or bad thing depending on both parties involved.
At the end of the day, it is your choice to be with such a guy...
Since you are already together, just try to work things out and if it can't then leave...
Mr. Green

Devil1976 SG

Reorganise your life?

Spend adequate and balanced life-style between time with your bf, family, friends or interest etc.?

nOrmalbOi SG

most of the things that can be said have been said..

so i shall offer the most offered commodity here..

friendship.

Plenty of decent peeps around here that can be friends.. if u will u could look around... u should be able to find a few outings... its that first step to making friends.. and its urs to take Smile

ha8n SG

take a step at a time:

first day just try not calling him
second day,mayb sms him only..
the rest is easy

gerrykoh SG

Do what u used to do before u have a bf.
Go out with your family & friends, learn a new hobby or sport so your mind will be occupied & u don't think of him so much.

RSP SG

Learn to let go and move on. Time will heal all wounds.

Every ending is a new beginning.You just don't know it at that time. Very Happy

Steph84 SG

yah.. he also said i shouldnt rely on him so much from now on. i shall do just that.. will try to exercise my self control.

Anyway, frens all got own bfs, own life... contact msn n sms now... seems lk the older u become, the more frens drift apart..

also, the older i become, the less out-going n sociable i've become. Confused

Devil1976 SG

Think you're only 21...? Rolling Eyes

nOrmalbOi SG

eh devil u put ur forum to perm ignore my posts is it... how come i post what.. it is NEVER seen nor heard nor acknowledged de

zzzzzzzzz

dun think i spout nonsense ALL the time oso mah...

Confused

Steph84 SG

i see ur posts.. dun worry..

mistyblue SG

when you are sick and tired of be being so sick and tired that which what you are... you will move on.

Good luck

nOrmalbOi SG

o...k...

M©+square SG

You want to be acknowledged?

And may i ask. What's the point?

Not being acknowledged doesn't mean you're sprouting or posting nonsense.

Dev, answer our normalbOi please?

Mr. Green

M©+square SG

To Steph84:

There are many reasons for break ups.
In order to move on. Many will offer advice to time.
But there are many other ways to quicken the wearing off of the after effects of hurt from a failed relationship.

You may wish to reveal why/reason for the breakup?

Cheers

STS SPORE SG

Re-organise your life,

re-build uour relationship wif ur family members.. which u have neglected...

do your favourite sports / games / activities with your friends,

contact your old school mates...

Cheers....

Devil1976 SG

Troubled people sometimes don't reply to everything... It'll just confuse them further... Laughing

Danisdead101times SG

try to make yourself busy with your work and maybe spare some time for your friends around you..this maybe a way to draw away from your current~ this is a time for you to learn to be independent..from what i see you are just afraid f lonliness so that is why you depends on your current so much~