ok im only 16 and i know nuts about the working society etc
etc..
alright, i read through what you have said and i think that what
you need now is friends to help you tide over the crisis. For you
to even think of posting in this website shows that you trust the
people here. would you not say you treat us as friends? i
understand ur problem with your friends, but what is the cause of
the rift between you and your friends? im sure you cannot possibly
aggravate all your friends at once unless you've done something
terribly wrong. ask yourself, did all of your friends leave you? or
did you isolate yourself, distancing yourself and your friends and
making it seem as though they have left you.
what about your family? i was once a very sad child that was not
able to hang out with friends, go to parties. all of that changed
when i started talking to my parents. they realised my problems, in
the meantime, i gained my freedom, and opened my parents up. i
allowed them to know my problems, know my friends. that helped alot
as whenever i had problems, i know my parents understand me enough
to carry me through. which parent does not love his/her child? yes,
people might feel that their parents do not love them, but i always
believe that the parents just take a different approach which the
child is unfamiliar with. that is the cause of the
misinterpretation and misunderstanding.
communication is one of the things a normal person cannot live
without. to be able to communicate well is to be able to put your
ideas and thoughts clearly across anyone's mind. have you been
communicating well with your family? do your parents understand
you? if no, the way to let them know you is through speaking the
truth about yourself.
ok i've been ranting and suicide should never be an option. you
dont have to go to professionals to seek for help, you didnt have
to post on this forums. the one who can only save you is you
yourself. you are what you think and what you do. By committing
suicide, you are trying to run away from the problem. In the
process, you hurt your loved ones. By overcoming this period of
depression, you become stronger, and more aware of how to cope with
oncoming pressure. come on, take it as a challenge. you only have 1
life, are you going to give yourself a game over even without
playing? In life, there are many choices, you can't say which is a
wrong or right choice, but you have to bear in mind that the
choices made.. are the results you get.. and the consequences that
follow. i have said enough...
