M©+square SG When you have it. The yearning to be silent and be at peace will be in your thoughts. When you're alone. There will be a strong desire to have a companion to listen and laugh and cry with you. To share a common identity. You're feeling lonely at this moment. Therefore this thought hovers. My guess is you should be quite young. Nothing wrong with this feeling because all of us have been thru it at least once in our lifetime. Human live with this contridiction because they could never be satisfied. They will constantly think of greener pastures look there. Interestingly....very interestingly, you seemed to miss those activities you missed doing and those feelings that made you feel good; Instead of truly realising at what really matters in your life. Maybe i'm wrong. I'm eager to hear from you again before i'll go any further? Cheers
starblue SG on the contrary, i think Smaplion’s rather old, maybe in his late 20s or early thirties… the pangs of loneliness setting in as the biological clock ticks away blissfully. Smap, clarify with us.
foxwalk SG How happy when you're with the person, the feeling of valididation, the feeling of being accepted for who you are, appreciated for who you are... that will make the difference. Of oucrse, in some relationships, we're better off being single.
mach10 SG zhuo ren zhen mao dun . . . its more impt to know where u going first, den trying to get there fast... when u got no gf now... stay single til u ready lor. so simple. otherwise u be like someone who complain tt their woman climbing on top of their head, can't control relationship... blah blah blah! den come flood the forum...
kaobeikaobu SG would you be happier remain single as you grow older, lonelier and weaker each day, so as to have more money and time to yourself and the boundless freedom to do whatever you want? is kicking your bad habit once and for all (whether you are attached or not) better than watching your behaviour or hiding your bad habits when you are attached, for they will be revealed after marriage? love is not only about loving the person only but also the love of living with him/her. it's ready your take afterall.
FeowFeow SG Dear SMAPLionHeart, I agree wif u tt single days can be so much fun if u noe how to enjoy them (except the part abt No table manners) I oso agree tt being in a r'ship & loving someone is an exceptionally wonderful feeling. Whether u choose to stay single or enter into a r'ship depends on how ready u think u r. 2 pple may like each other enuff to date, but if u're Not ready for a r'ship, & u dun feel up to the effort of giving a r'ship a try, it's best to remain single. Why Not? Since u noe how to enjoy it : ) FeowFeow
M©+square SG *shake back* Thank you thank you. .... *scratch head* Actually when i got back on night. And just saw my nick was Modded.
Lingos SG Grass is always greener. hahaa.. attached but i still get to turn heads without feeling like he's gonna punch out everyone who looks at me.
FeowFeow SG Waaah, got like tt meh??? I oso hope next time I log in, I become EXTRA HIGHLY PAID mod FeowFeow
FeowFeow SG Eh, ev. time I come up wif suitable advice, I think v. hard leh, surely there shd be compensation for my potential wrinkles & potential white hair??? Alternatively, a Kose facial package & Jean Yip Oxygen Hair treatment package per mth will do juz fine FeowFeow
FeowFeow SG V. difficult for airhead Not to think hard before giving advice tt doesn't insult the intelligence of others wat FeowFeow
a_splash SG Hi, newby here :-) interesting question....so i can't help to kapo kapo there is always pros and cons to everything and the pros and cons can differ for every individual....so u just hv to weigh wat u deem pros and cons... being attached (just courtship) is good...esp at the beginning....cos its all excitement knowing someone new....but as time pass...when u no longer can control not revealing too much of yr true (bad habits) self...that is the test.... and revealing the 'true' and maintening relationship is the more impt part to see if the 'two hands clapped' well..... Like many mentioned here....if you can find the 'right' one then get attached is good.....then again.....u need the rite attitude towards a relationship in order the rite one. make sense?? or no sense??
