I dunno its the person you or its really ur fren, but i try
anyway...
True friends wun mind the truth, jus quote "Dun mind...No
offence...Not trying to swan...etc" cos if tat person also hv "own
thinking power" he will also know why u said those.
If u really treasure this fren, tel him the truth...u wun wan see
ur friend live in pain should anything happen, yes, he may not
listen but at least u did ur part as a friend.
Ultimately,is still wat ur friend want...mayb he can get her also
hard to say..