maybe she's interested too... and maybe she tries to be very
nice to you... but u din make any moves... or ask her to be ur
gf... then she sian... think maybe shouldn't be so nice to you...
maybe u dun really like her... so she wans to let the thing die
off... then after sometime... she realise she still fancies you...
then she become very nice again... then you still never say
anything... then she wans to back off again?? hmmm... haha.... i'm
just speculating eh?? this might be one scenario... ;P
She should know by now that i like her..coz i've made some
rather obvious hints every now and then. For example i sms her a
couple of times weekly and call her every now and then.
Maybe I'll give some background abt her. We are both first year
university students. Neither of us has ever had a bf/gf before (for
ur info i went to a all-boys school in my teens, didnt mix much
with girls then) Her opinion on boy-gal r/s is very conservative,
while I'm more "modern" so to speak. Her good friend told me dat
she seems to hav some interest but may not want to start a r/s
right now. But i'm not sure if i can trust wat the fren is saying.
I mean she might be conservative but if she knows i like her will
she still behave like dat? I'm beginning to think dat she doesnt
like me, or maybe there's something holding her back. Btw, she has
been talking about what i did 4 her to some of her closer frens, i
know coz they told me. Like when i give her something or do
something for her etc. But she has ever told me once before that
she has never met any guy in her life that she has liked(in the
romantic sort of way). I wonder if dis is her way of hinting dat
she doesnt like me?
People have joked dat she n i are a couple but her response is
rather neutral - just a light smile.
Donno if it's relevant but were're from different backgrounds - I'm
from an English speaking background while she is from a
Mandarin-speaking background. When we speak to each other we use
mandarin coz she does not like to speak in English to friends. We
have different tastes in music and tv shows - she likes chinese
music and canto shows while i don't watch canto shows at all coz my
canto simply sucks.
