what shd i do?

man4nth SG

hmm...she was the one who court mi in the 1st place before we really went into a relationship........later on i find out that she n i hv a lot of things in-common..............she started to kick a fuss.....asking for break up.......sometime i really do not undrestand her at all...

I getting very sick in this kind of r/s....
i think i know what to do next....
if she ever want a break up, i will say YES..............

man4nth SG

A Beautiful Mind SG

i had the same prob last time... Make a plan to slowly get rid of all those ard them. Get some help frm the underworld, frame them & land them in jail. IN some cases, where u have no other choice, u may have to kill (remember those scenes frm hk dramas)...

When she slowly finds herself isolated & helpless, she wld have no choice but to ur bidding...

HAHAHAHAHAHA

SunRisE SG

Yes you will feel hurt.. But time will heal.. depending on how long it takes.. YOu still have feelings for her.. But then if you insist on carrying on this relationship.. it wont do you both good.. if this were to drag on.. you be hurt even more.. cos you are giving youself a false hope..

Hoping that she will change for the better.. she will understand you alittle more.. she wont stop goin out with that bunch of friends.. Are you hoping and wishing that one day these will happen?? Seriously.. it will not.. like what everyone always says "it takes two hands to clap"

SunRisE SG

Like i say.. dun wait for such situation then you agree for a break up.. if ever next time you see each other on street i bet you never even say hi.. jus walked pass or pretend never see each other.. you wan such thing to happen??

I rather you end it in a nicer way.. let letting her know what's the cause and problem in this relationship.. whether she listen to you anot.. that's her problem.. Cos i bet there's no one ever tell her such things before.. so you'll be the first one.. telling her what's wrong.. About the relationship.. about her.. about you.. how you feel.. and how she always been undreasonable this and that..

At the very least you explain to her.. what's the cause of all these.. This time round.. not her asking for a breakup.. is you who intiated.. i know is very hurting.. but once you say it out.. she listens and know about.. both still can be friends.. I'm sure that last time none of her bf did that.. Mostly all breakups.. are jus breakup.. and that's it.. Have you ever know what's the reason behind it??

People often don't know.. and will never learn.. as they thought is always not their fault AT ALL.. you never know.. cos the other never ever say it out..

Cheers..

_Aaron_ SG

In short,
Yes.

M©+square SG

How long have this relationship been around for?
Thru out these times you didn't realise and understand her minor things you do that will trigger her unreasonable reactions?
Tried hard to understand her???

You think that her friends comments meant more to her compared to yours. She could have valued her friends more. But ever consider if it could be you didn't potray a independent figure and a someone she is able to look up to?

Ever considered that her pattern of break and patch-up is unknowingly brought up by you?

Food for thought: If she ever want a break up, you will say YES. But you never meant it.
The fact stated that you've sexual intimacy with her speaks of another level of relationship.

Possibly...
If you've the courage to break up. She wouldn't take it. Because all the while you're the one who's giving in, why the sudden change in you?

Conclusion: The both of you should learn find what is really lacking in your lives. What you've commented here is very superfical. If there's still any help needed, pls give more inputs.

You stilll can learn from this relationship and grow out of this.

Cheers

Devil1976 SG

Why don't you just tell her? Cool

dzylim SG

sounds like wat i had with my ex till i had enuff when she 2 timed me. brother. trust me. Leave her ASAP. u will get over it and find a better girl who deserves u out there. u may feel sad initially but u will get over it.

man4nth SG

i had finally make up my mind!..........
i decide to end the r/s...............

dzylim SG

Very Happy Mr. Green good for u! WOOHPEEE!

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