ello brudders n sistas outhere,
today sth happen n i lost my temper,galfren got mad at me said we
cant live together anymore,said she got no more feelings for
me,,,if i dun move out she will..but i wasnt totally at fault for
the incident
we started as a long distance relationship for 2 yrs, it was great
we were loving etc,then she came over and we cohabit untill
now..whn she first came over, she has got no hot temper, it was me
alw took it out on her, she was submissive.. i realised my nonsense
when she dumped me abt 2 yrs ago.
then she came bck to me after my constant reassurance that i would
change all of me that she finds unacceptable..which i did...
our relationship when on strong again...but she temper got
horrid...abit abit only she will loose it, scream and yelled ..but
despite all this....she took care of me well..
c my business failed and i lost everything but my gal took care of
my welfare, saved me from my money faced n violent family,she
provided allowance for me for almost 2 yrs n still on going,paid
for the pub,paid for rental bought me thnigs that i wanted and
nothing for herself...
i did change all my bad points but i can say that she still finds
me not perfect enough for her,eg, when we go out, if we got not up
to standard service n i would grumble, galfren became unhappy w me,
if i was too blunt with my joke of others, she gets angry n will
give me silent treatment etc..
i am striving to climb up again but not relevant opportunity exists
yet, i was let down with numerous disappointment,gf told me that
she will yang wo..
i said i will be a good partner n wil take care of domestic issues
while she be the working one ,, she was ok...
(a suitor bought me expensive gift n my gf saw it, i know she wasnt
too happy but i kept quiet)since then she began to say thnigs like
her feelings for me died etc ..cuz i told her i stayed in the
relationship with her tolerate her temper cuz i m grateful that she
yang wo, gave money to me, that night we managed to smooth things
out after i tackle her.
then a few days bck, we took a walk at the park she said,if u find
u can talk to others(i hv a few suitors)easily n can relate to
them, y dun u get in relationship with them.. i was shaovk n ask
her y she said that,, she said,if 2 person has got problematic
communication issues, better quit it n move on,
i told her i love her, wil take note of her feedbck n change witch
i did wanna change..she was happy..
u c gf n i are considered very compatible in terms of horoscope,
astrology,we hv common interest,exept we were not from the same
country,she came from a wealth family but a wholesome family else i
came from wealth family but broken family with abusive father n
siblings.we both considered good looking,she has a doctorate
education while me only with a diploma
gf said sth like due to my bckgrd(broken family)i stimes say
insensitive things targetted towards her parents, which i did but i
stopped doing that..cuz i m a person that learns from my mistakes n
wil try not to repeat them..
i do love gf very much n really wan her to open up to me more n tel
me whats on her mind,i wan her to calm her temper n love me like
how she used to...(gf said her temper was caused by me)
i really dun know if things will really work out between gf n i? we
hv been together for more than 6 yrs,,, when tru thick n thin n
just 1 mth ago gf said she began to hv confidence in us..n she has
lowered some of her expectation of me ie she doesnt harp on things
like she yang wo, gave me allowance etc..
pls give me honest feedback,,, lately i felt so small, ie no job,
no income,no family love, lonely,but i did worked hard prevly n i
was quite ok untill i was burnout n quit work for my own business,i
alw met with constant failure then success then fail again,i also
feel i cant talk to my gf like how i can with my ex gf
