Dear BeanSprout (yummy!),
It may be a case of, "I dumped him, yet he's doing better than
before I dumped him". A sense of inadequacy may be present, or
perhaps a sense of wistfulness, like "I dumped him, yet he's
married but I'm Not" or "He has children but I haven't yet",
etc.
There's a tendency to compare in some pple, this is Not abnormal.
Know tt there're pple out there who think like u do, & haf the
same doubts.
It takes awhile, but the best thg to do is to accept it & move
on. Afterall, if the r'ship din last, both of u wld've been better
off wif other pple. If he's meant to be urs, later in time, he
might be.
FeowFeow
